Well from where I should Start? I am MBA still jobless, My father thinks I am useless, Its like I have lost everything, My past mistakes haunt me, I am not a religious person, My gf left me because I was not giving time to her. I feel like I should kill myself, I don't from where but this "thinking" is prevailing within me, When I compare myself with others I feel I am utmost loser, I have achieved nothing in my life. I have lost all confidence, I can't talk to people, I can't take initiative. I am losing my health, People think I am arrogant. while they don't know it is my lack of confidence that I avoid meeting people May be this night will be my last night, I don't know what to do, My life seems to be standing on final chapter. Anything from you guys will highly appreciative..
Take care and have fun guys
2007-09-25 09:46:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
don't commit suicide!! just think positive, I once commit suicide know why? that's bc of i'm deaf, but now I feel great bc my great boyfriend came along in my way, he been help me alot...so I suggest you to find a new girlfriend, and finds good job that get good paid! then starts new life, man...*smile* if you need my help, then email me or IM me if you have IM. I will pray for you, and I care for you
2007-09-27 03:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by bunnielover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've pretty much hit rock bottom and suicide seems like a good solution as an exit stratergy from the hurt as nothing can get any better, can it...
Know exactly where you're coming from there and yeah, it's a horrible place to be right now, but before you go down that road I would look at this fact - unlike a lot of people (including myself) who didn't seek any help, you've come to a group of strangers to seek a solution which is good....you don't want to go through this alone.
One thing that kept me from going over the edge was when somoene said - well, if you do that today how do you know that someone amazing woudn't have walked into your life tomorrow or next week or even next month? Personally I used that idea, that ok today was crappy but I wonder what tomorrow will bring...
Being absolutely honest I didn't believe them either, but just as I hit rock bottom it happened - twice and completely unexpectedly in 2005 and 2006.
It might look like a dark place and you may not be able to see the way out yet, but I promise with the right help it is there - you've just got to find the light switch. If i were you, tomorrow morning go book an appointment with your doctor and see what he/she says as they really do come across this kindof thing an awful lot and will understand.
Put another way - think of today as the first step in rebuilding your life, then you can hang around here and gain some confidence, self-esteme and pass on your experiences to help other people....just like I aim to.
2007-09-25 10:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nickipettis is right. You are clinically depressed and when you feel like that you seem surrounded by blackness and it seems there is no hope. I was where you are about 30 years ago I felt very close to death and didn't know how to go on living. I decided not to kill myself but for a long time i was existing rather than living. Gradually i started to laugh at things again and occasionally i found myself enjoying myself. Life has improved over the years and I am not depressed at all. I am a happy person with two great kids a lovely husband and four wonderful grandchildren. I have a nice house by the sea and life is good.
Please dont throw your life away. It might seem hard not to now, but you will save your family a lot of heartache and you
will get better - depression is like a tunnel - all black until one day you turn a corner and you can see the sun shining.
2007-09-25 09:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, you have a purpose in this life. Don't kill yourself. There is a heaven and a hell. Don't play with your life. God is real. His son Jesus died for you. Trust in him and he will give you peace. Who cares what people think about you. Your Father is wrong when he says you are useless. Even those who don't see the usefulness in themselves are not useless. I know where you are coming from. I have dealt with an anxiety disorder/depression 24/7 for the past 8-9 years of my life. Sometimes it looked like my life was at a dead end, but I refused to think suicide was the answer because it isn't. You think there is no afterlife, but have you thought about it. What if you are truly wrong about this, and you kill yourself, realising that you have the worst, eternal mistake of the history of your life. Do you want to take that chance? Let me tell you, I know Jesus exists beyond a shadow of a doubt, And I know you are making an eternal mistake by killing yourself. Don't do it. Tomorrow will be a brighter day. I believe that you will overcome this. YOU WILL SEE BETTER DAYS. I believe it. I AM PRAYING FOR YOU! If you think nobody cares, you are wrong. I would not be taking the time to tell you this if I didn't care.
2007-09-25 10:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your asking why people commit suicide when you plan to do it yourself. First, people, humans, commit suicide because of several reasons. One, they are downright tired of there daily useless boring lives. Two, they are on drugs. Three, they did something that they never want to face with again and think that the only way to actually "run away" from the problem is to kill themselves. Four, someone hates them that they wish did not, and hate themselves as well.
Those are the 4 main reasons, basicly depression causes thoughts like those, and you won't see a happy average person doing things or thinking about ideas like those.
I seriously hope your not thinking to commit suicide because your family members, friends, and even god would miss you down here on Earth. Life is a gift, think of it this way; God owns a machine that he uses to create people. He pulls the lever and 3 random people get chosen in the 3 slots. Those 3 people are born and are the 3 that get to be brought into the world. That keeps going until such. Think of all the people that aren't even born - the people that didn't have enough luck to be chosen when got pulled that lever. You, are one of the chosen people. And now you want to waste your life just like that, thinking you have more then one life. You have one life, not two, not zero, one. It's a special gift. God created you to see your path and then choose wether you shall go to heavan or hell. Followed along with the suicide commiton, whoever commits suicide goes straight to hell, so why do it? God created you, let god kill you.
Best of luck,
- Broken
2007-09-25 10:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Innocence♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey no. Do not do it. What's bad now defines your future self. I have been in the deep darkness too. What you need now is a friend, then life will get better. I can't prescribe drugs, but I am an awesome listener and I would rather help you than to see life wasted. Please don't go down a road that there isn't a return from. E mail me if you wish. I won't shove religion down your throat and through years of nursing, I do not judge others. Whatever you need to say, say it. But do not commit suicide. There isn't a cure or a second chance in that.
2007-09-25 10:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Winchester 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes AND no.. Animals are capable of commiting suicide, they will do it if a bond is broken. If the bond wasn't strong enough, the animal would be sad for a short week, and then be normal again.
2016-04-06 00:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the military, they will instill self confidence, pride, respect, and give you gainful employment, a sense of accomplishment, and a sense of purpose... but in the mean time dont do any thing rash that you might regret, a suicide attempt may prevent you from joining the military, (plus ruin your life) talk to a suicide hotline, hang in there, it will all get better
2007-09-25 09:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by robbie_johansen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont comit suicide man. start a new life get a new girlfreind think of everything good in your life!! well good luck with that,and remember you have no right to kill your self if you think you have no meaning in life, then join some church or something.
2007-09-25 09:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess sometimes the pain of living is to bad, some people would rather feel nothing at all.
2007-09-25 09:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by DJW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋