A guy you've know for a long time told his friends he had sex with you when he really didn't. When you find out what he said...
What would you do???
2007-09-25 08:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Also... what would you do if you LIKED this guy and actually wanted to have sex with him?????????????
2007-09-25 08:55:27 · update #1
OUCH!!.. you girls are brutal
2007-09-25 09:04:08 · update #2
LOOKS LIKE I'M PRETTY MUCH SCREWED!!!!
2007-09-25 09:09:36 · update #3
It would change my opinion of him completely to dislike, even if I was attracted to him. After all, he lied about something so personal.
And then I’d tell everyone he wasn’t any good, either…
2007-09-25 09:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would ask if he graduated high school.
I'm sorry. Mature people with things to do don't have to make up stories to impress their friends.
Other than that, I wouldn't give a flying ***** what he told his friends. But I'd probably be like ... "So why is this guy my friend again?" And I would kick him out of my life so he could no longer waste my time with his childish crap. No problem.
2007-09-25 16:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It had happened to me many years ago. He had a crush on me, but never was given a chance to talk to me. His friends knew this and teased him mercilessly, so he made up this ridiculous story about us sleeping together. Couple of days later, it all came out in a very public way, and he was very much embarrassed, because I kept making fun of him. The point is: lies will only hurt you in the end.
2007-09-26 18:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That actually did happen to me, though I only knew the guy for a few months. He was the leader of our school's Geek Brigade and incredibly unattractive, and I was one of the first girls to be nice to him. He had asked me out after he told his buds that we'd slept together (like THAT would ever happen), and I turned him down, so he stopped trying to make them believe that he had a girlfriend. (They didn't.) I found out from one of our mutual friends. I didn't confront him about it, but I did start writing a screenplay based on the tale.
2007-09-25 17:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager, I would have been horrified and upset. Now... well, it depends on my relationship circumstance. I'd be pissed because I have a boyfriend and I wouldn't want him thinking that I was cheating. If I was single, I really wouldn't care... why does it matter if people think I'm having sex? I'm not sixteen anymore, everything's all good. I'd think he was really juvenile though.
2007-09-25 16:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by ©å®®ĩε 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If I didn't like the guy- I would probably be really confused and have a long talk with him about why he did that. If I did like him- I would be mad. I would still have a talk with him about why he would ever do that, but I would consider him very immature and honestly I would be put off.
2007-09-25 16:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sansa 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly not think of him as a friend anymore. What kind of guy has to lie about sex anyway?
2007-09-25 18:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell all of those friends he was the worst ever, not well endowed, and too quick on the trigger.
2007-09-25 18:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by professorc 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably tell people that his penis was very small, and since he decided to lie about me I would NEVER HAVE SEX WITH HIM!
2007-09-25 16:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would make him and his friends meet some place- CONFRONT him and make him come clean about what he said about me. And if I was attracted to him - I wouldn't be anymore.
2007-09-25 16:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Babycat 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋