Bra question?

Question

I Have always had a hard time finding bras that actually fit good! I have 38dd s thats not the problem most of the bras that big are for big women and the straps that go around my shoulders are to big so they dont hold them up and also the strap alone my back doesnt go tight enough I was just wondering if anyone else has this problem and what can i do about it any help would be great and please dont tell me to just not wear a bra cuz that s what my boyfriend says to do and ya thats not going to happen lol

Answer 1

you should get fitted. most department stores will do it free of charge so will victoria's secret. it sounds like you are buying the wrong size

Answer 2

Well, I like that you won't consider not wearing a bra, I'm glad I wear one or my boyfriend would have gotten a feel of my boob and not my bra, not much of a difference but yea, lol, i didn't like it. Anyways, I would suggest finding a place that will make custom bras or get yourself fitted by someone who works in the bra section of any store, any store usually has a person that will fit you for a bra, and that person (probably a woman) can help you find a bra just right for you! But If i was in your situation, I would have a custom bra made so it would fit perfectly. good luck!

Answer 3

If the back strap isn't tight enough, you are buying the wrong size. Also, you sound like you are looking at bras for full-figured women and you are not one. Measure yourself with a measuring tape below your actual breasts on your rib cage. That is the main number you are looking for. It's possible that you have the wrong size and wrong cup size. Victoria's Secret and/or JC Penney can help you measure.

Answer 4

Don't feel bad. I have the same problem. Finally one day I dragged my mom into this specialty bra shop in a town near home. It specializes in bras and girdles. The woman in there helped me to find a bra that was big enough for my boobs but wasn't too big that it didn't fit snug around my ribs. Look in your phone book or on line for a specialty bra shop. You might end up paying a lot for one bra but it will fit so well that you probably won't care!

Answer 5

Go to a good bra store...you can find them online. You need to be fitted properly. The better department stores normally have a bra person in the department that can fit you. Tell your bf if he'll pay for your boob lift in 2-5 years then you'll be happy to go braless! ya, that's not gonna happen either.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

Go get professionally sized as 80% of us are in the wrong bra size. Go to Nordstroms JCPenneys or Sears (NOT victoria secret, they do not know how to size correctly, personal experience and other women's feedback!).

Also check out these sites:

http://www.justmysize.com
http://www.jcpenney.com
http://www.bravissimo.com
http://www.figleaves.com

Answer 7

My wife is large chested. She used to get mad. Sports bra was her solution. She is a small woman with large breasts and she is most comfortable in a sports bra. They don't bounce when she walks and they do not hurt. It is not sexy, but it is helpful. Good luck.

Answer 8

I WOULD REMEASURE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU BUY ANOTHER ONE. ALSO, I AM VERY SMALL CHESTED BUT HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH THE STRAPS. I HAVE FOUND THAT THE T-BACK BRAS STAY PUT AND THEY ARE REALLY CUTE.
HOPE THAT HELPS, YOU CAN GET THEM AT KHOLS. OTHERWISE THEY CAN BE HARD TO FIND.

Answer 9

i dont think you are actually a 38... you need to go to J.C penneys or victoria's secret and get professionally sized... when they fit you with one you like buy it!

Answer 10

How do you feel about breast reduction surgery? Well, you could get your bras custom made.