This oddball now moving out is in his late 40's and he had various female bar troll friends who knew all about me as he spoke about me to them but he wouldn't introduce them to me. They ended up being ugly bar trolls with drug and Dui issues too. He seemed really annoyed that he couldn't interest me and I was just his neighbor. He even went so far as to have his rich parents come to where I work at a nursing home to recover from a hospital stay where they helped themselves to asking about me with my coworkers. I had quit talking to the misfit. When were having a conversation he often told me stories I discovered were lies later and I told him I did not want my business discussed with the sugar mama's who bailed him out of jail that he met in the bar. He is nearly moved out now but I would like to know, from men in particular but anyone with insight what in the world did this "neighbor" want from me. He acted like I was such a frustration to him because I didn't have his problems.
2007-09-25 06:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by sliverofmoon2000 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe he saw a way out of his own troubles with you. However, he knew he had no chance with you. So it was just a dream of "What if". He probably had enough sense (or you) not to try to get involved and mess up your life. Kind of like when someone is drowning and you try to help, but you end up drowning both of you.
I am assuming that you kind of liked him in a way. Maybe you thought about helping him get his life strightened out. Otherwise, you would have not posted and since you work at a nursing home....put 1 and 1 to make 2.
In any case, he is probably set in his ways and no help from you would be good enough. Just wish him luck and farewell.
2007-09-25 06:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by CHEPIBE72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i could call the police when I scent the drugs simply by fact in the event that they get there and scent them they have reason to head into the abode. i could consult with the police and notice in the event that they have any drug job stress. I ought to additionally say i think of the police are ineffective and by no ability do what they're think to. with a bit of luck your police are greater advantageous than ours. in case you have a window dealing with the lilacs i could publish a video digicam and vcr and tape you may get 8 hr tapes and tape for that element. once you capture this woman pouring bleach on the lilacs i could take her to court docket and make her pay for brand spanking new ones. that's no longer stressful to tape you do no longer possibly even want a television, you will to verify the vcr is on the a/v or line placing, you connect the camcorder to the vcr and push rec on the vcr and it will tape the vcr must be on ep or regardless of is prolonged play.
2016-10-09 20:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by nein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a bum. He wanted whatever he could get. He was probably interested because you aren't the type he normally deals with.
Put it out of your mind, he's leaving, that's all that matters. Go make friends with the new neighbors. Move on.
2007-09-25 06:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by E. F. Hutton 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a waste of time to ponder the human mind and spirit.
No one truly knows the workings of the human mind.
Even if you were to figure out a human mind even your own it would change.
Try to find some other focus for your life.
2007-09-25 06:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by granny_sp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously wasn't very mentally stable. There's no telling what he wanted from you, but none of it was good. Why did you even talk to him? He's moving out now! Forget him and move on with your life, and enjoy the lack of creepy stalker.
2007-09-25 06:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question isn't very clear, and you sound like a female. Don't know what to answer.
2007-09-25 06:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to show off, even to shock you
he wanted attention
2007-09-25 06:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What!? I dont understand your question...are you just venting?
2007-09-25 06:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋