We used to be very close together. we share almost everything. until we start to hold hands... things get a bit messy. i think i hurt her feelings by saying that i have always regarded her as my elder sister. She left me not long after, about 2 months later, but not without insulting me, abusing my feelings, telling me that she has gotten herself another man and ask me to pest off. i was peeved definitely. i gave in a 100 %, care and help her in every way. in the end, that's the manner she left me. ya.. and she ask her parents to lie to me that she has flown off to Europe. and ya.. i m an idiot i actually believed. i m devastated.Till one fateful day, i find out the truth and so i went straight to her house to find her. i wanted so much to say i m sorry about perhaps hurting her feelings and getting an answer from her.
in the end it turns out very wrong, now she has lodged a legal complaint on me accusing me of harassment. looking her up will be so wrong. what should i do?
2007-09-25 04:57:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Realize that maybe, just maybe, it wasn't your fault. Trust that we have to blame other people sometimes for their errors. Like her, she had no reason to blow up on your for the friends comment, to treat you that way, to betray you. THAT show'd what kind of person she really is, so trust that maybe god (and I don't believe in the christian god, but a force of god) want'd to show you, that this lady isn't worth it. When people hurt us, it should be honesty, not hostility that we use in retailation....
2007-09-28 10:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defend accusation lies
2016-02-02 07:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋