2007-09-25 03:58:48 · 15 answers · asked by Yumi C 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No such thing as normal. Practice makes perfect.
2007-09-25 04:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by pinkdaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unlikely that anything is wrong with you. Many women have issues getting off. You might be putting too much pressure on the actual getting off part, and it's making you too tense or nervous to actually do it! Just relax and enjoy the ride (pun intended) you will find out what pushes your buttons. But the key is to relax and don't think about getting off or else you're sure not to. Try some self exploration, that's a great way to find out what you like/don't like. Good luck! =)
2007-09-25 04:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Vbonics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how is a "normal girl" supposed to do it? Do you mean you have to engage in what others may call deviant behavior? Well, if it isn't harmful to you or others, then have at it. If you mean you can't seem to reach orgasm, then give yourself time...a lot of time. Or find yourself a careful and talented lover. Even if you are madly in love with someone, a woman requires more and different types of stimulation than a man. You may love him like crazy, he may look like Adonis, but if he doesn't know what to do with you, it is all for naught. Most women do not reach their sexual peak until they are in their 30's. One thing you can do, is experiment with yourself...see what feels good and what doesn't and relay this information to your lover. If he is as concerned about your satisfaction as he is his own, he will use any and all techniques he can to make you feel good, too. If you are overly concerned, visit a Gyn and make certain you have no physical reason for not achieving orgasm. Then, barring any deep-rooted psychological reasons (sexual abuse, rape), you should be good to go.
2007-09-25 04:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "like a normal girl"? You mean climax sexually? Many "normal" girls cannot climax through sexual penetration. Experiment. Try different things. Just because you're not screaming with pleasure the way women do it in the movies does not mean you are not normal. Most women need a bit of experimenting with themselves before they discover what makes them tick.
2007-09-25 04:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most "normal" women can't get off either. Sometimes we have to put some effort into it. Like self pleasuring ourselves before, during or after sex to get to what we want. There isn't anything wrong with you at all. All you can do is find a way to get off, because your sexual pleasure is your responsibility.
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2007-09-25 04:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. To rule out physical problems see your Doctor and discuss the problem. If you haven't masturbated before try that with a really strong fantasy in your head. Achieving orgasm can be age related also. Finally after you have ruled out physical and mental problems consider that your male partners are inadequate for your needs.
2007-09-25 04:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by bardmere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much info here to work on but what exactly is your definition of "normal" every one of us is different and is turned on by different things, why would you think there is something wrong with you??
2007-09-25 04:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably nothing wrong with you at all. You can talk to your Dr. about it. Vibrators are a beautiful thing and there's nothing wrong with using one, you might want to just be alone, relax and then try.
2007-09-25 04:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you, one not every guy out there is going to do it for ya. honestly my boyfriend is like the 2nd guy that has ever been able to quote on quote "get me off". you have to find "your spot", find what you like what pleases you etc. have him try diffferent things, you never know. but all in all, no nothing is wrong with you
2007-09-25 04:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get off at all its ok dont worry about being normal, although I m interested in what you mean by normal
2007-09-25 04:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋