think about this for two seconds before answering please,,
tell me about your situation, are you frequently hurting and think this all comes with the territory?
2007-09-25 03:38:52 · 16 answers · asked by Dots 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Love hurts bad when two people think about themselves before the partner. Love hurts good when two people ache for each other. If you are frequently hurting you're not in love, you're infatuated and the other person is "not that into you". Love has to be reciprocated to be real; otherwise it's just idol worship.
2007-09-25 03:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Goethe's Ghostwriter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is. You already know my situation right? Think I told you about him... Love, lust, whichever or both, it still hurts. Good and bad, it all comes with the territory. It sucks, yet its all kind of worth it in the end. Some days more than others for sure tho.
2007-09-25 05:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Love does not have to hurt but it often seems to. When you listen to the music of love you will hear it telling stories about the pain and sorrow of unfulfilled love.
Someone left, someone cheated, or someone died and left someone sad and alone. Love is such a strong positive emotion that it is inevitable that there will be some pain associated with it at some time.
This is Nature's law of opposites. For every force there is an equal and opposite force to hold it in balance. As much as our love would soar as a bird on the air, there is gravity to bring it back to earth…sometimes falling but usually gliding.
The truth, however, is that love does not hurt but it is the falling out of love or not having love that really hurts. And the higher you are, such as in the heights of passion or the tower of a long-term love, the harder the fall. A break-up, divorce, death, or abandonment are some of the most painful experiences of life because we miss our love so much.
We all need two things in life
1. To not be alone or feel alone, and
2. To be appreciated and loved for who we are.
Love brings us together and loneliness reminds us that we are missing something in life. You may not even understand it but the forces are there. We seek fulfillment in the love of others when we often need to love ourselves just as much.
hope this answers some of your doubts.....
cheers n chin up:)
2007-09-25 03:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by angelzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love itself does not hurt, but it takes some "pain" to grow & mature. Like achieving any personal goal like losing weight, quitting alcohol, obtaining Masters degree... there will be what I call "growing pains" which may feel horrible while you are in it. But in the long run those hurts can make you a better person. It's all how you look at it: Glass half full or half empty.
2016-05-18 01:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes love does hurt. Some good hurts..and some not so good. I hurt when I cant see him and the ache inside is so real. You either love and have the hurt or never love at all.
2007-09-25 04:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an essential part of our lives. It doesn't hurt. But betrayal does.
Love can continue regardless of the outcome. But it can make letting go so very difficult.
2007-09-25 03:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Handy man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-25 03:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by boscowood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the strongest feeling a human can feel. Yes, hurt comes with it.
2007-09-25 03:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heartache when they're gone.
Headache when you're thinking about them so much.
Knee...ache because you go weak in them.
Maybe there's always a catch within good things, but if it's true love, it wouldn't matter.
2007-09-25 04:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can, depending on how much you love that person and what type of love it is.
2007-09-25 03:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋