i told him he should come out of the closet too....jokingly....and he got mad! was i out of line....or is he a closet gay.?
Men.....have you ever had gay friends.....
Men...have you ever had homosexual feelings....or just wondered?
|Please be honest
2007-09-25 02:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he was just offended, not necessarily because he's gay, but because that was rude. Perhaps he was talking about those dudes because they're awesome, and he wanted to show you that he is comfortable enough with his sexuality to have gay male friends. He's not necessarily a closet case. Consider yourself lucky to have such an open-minded husband and lay off with the gay jokes at his expense. :)
2007-09-25 02:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by JigsawJones 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing you actually have already thought deep down about him being gay because he talks about his coworkers so much. So it was probably a "joke" meant to see what kind of reaction you would get. I wouldnt say it was out of line, nor that he is a closet homosexual.
He probably feels the need to talk about it because it typically is so shunned in daily life and has come to realize its not something that is so bad for a person to be.
Yes I have gay friends, and no ive never had homosexual feelings in the way people deem.
2007-09-25 02:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave.
At least he said they were gay and why do you feel so insecure about it.
It is a Man thing, accept them or not.
If this is the Philippines then why be so shocked, I have gays smile at me every time I go out, or so my Wife says.
Either way, it does not bother me at all, each to there own.
Real Men do not have gay feelings ever.
This is sorted out in early Life.
If he was working with two Woman you would be even more insecure I think as I think you are clasping at straws.
Show him a real Woman and see how he responds to it, use a little brain matter to set the scene, come on if you are a real Woman then it should not be that difficult to get him where you want him eh.
2007-09-25 02:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by shaun s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes sounds like a in the closet homo phob. I have gay friends but I dont think of them as gay mainly because they have much more women hanging of their arms then me so? It was a totally appropriate joke I would have even said it. When I was going through puberty, like all guys who go through puberty, you get uncontrollable erections. So I would associate it with what I was looking at. So the only feelings I have had were in prepudeciant years but I hear thats normal for guys. I'm not gay but you can be the only one to know for sure. I.E if your sex life changes he does things he hasnt done before you get the picture.
2007-09-25 02:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by cmg_266 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have brookback mountan on his netflix list? Does he like you to play with his bottom? does he come home smelling of another mans private areas?
Unless you have something concrete to go on there is always a chance that he just has some friends that are gay. Next physical though i would toss in an HIV and full std test on my blood work - just to be on the safe side.
Perhaps you should find some nice lesbians to toss in the mix too.
Good luck!
2007-09-25 02:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay or gay curious if he is getting overly offended, but nt just because he has gay friends. I have several gay friends and they are some of my best friends, but i don't have feelings for them. Your husband may be curious, and thats not overly strange. I think many men go through it, but its taboo so its not discussed. I would talk to him about yor worries.
2007-09-25 02:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by writenimage 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should know your mate, but I know for a fact, the company you keep, is a reflection on you, and some people can't separate the two. You ask him, and he denied it, so that's all you have to go on, if he was that way he wouldn't have gotten angry. Let it be, unless you have evidence of anything farther, they are probably just friends as he said.
2007-09-25 03:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight men and gay men can be friends without any hanky panky involved. You may have been joking but its jokes like that that make straight men not want to befriend gay men.
2007-09-25 02:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is a closet gay, most masculine men get angry if you question their sexuality, they think it's obvious, just tell him you were only joking, and didn't mean to offend him.
2007-09-25 02:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has gay friends, but he is completely straight. Maybe he just has fun with those guys at work.
2007-09-25 02:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Alli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋