could that be grounds for divorce? shes all bent out of shape cuz i said i told you so about taking care of herself during pregnancy.
2007-09-25 01:22:33 · 28 answers · asked by rev. jay mccain ( . ) ( . ) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i have no problem with the weight gain as long as she promises to lose it in 3-4 weeks.
2007-09-25 01:51:15 · update #1
see my previous response. Kick her out...make her take the brats with her. I'll be over with a gallon of gin.
2007-09-25 05:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is completely wrong for you to be angry about her having stretch marks. And everyone is right, stretch marks are genetic, if most of the women in her family had them she probably would get them no matter what cream (no matter the price) she put on during pregnancy. Now would you be thinking of divorcing her if she got stretch marks from using a type of birth control? That happens to a lot of women, stretch marks can be caused by hormones as well. I think you should really think about what you are asking and look in the mirror. Are you perfect? Nobody is perfect, she just had a baby! Plus, stretch marks fade within time, I am sure she looks great!
2007-09-25 01:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny...you are totally in the wrong here. Stretch marks can not be avoided if you are gonna get them. Some woman dont some do...but not by choice. You are being awefully mean about this, 3 or 4 weeks to lose the weight after having a baby...it takes @ 6 weeks before the dr even wants her to excercise...and it takes a bit to settle into routine and get uesd to having a baby around, much less having time for herself...you just need to chill out and stop saying i told you so...you know nothing about being pregnant, you've never done it....If you are going to treat her like this then maybe she should think twice about weather you should stay around...
2007-09-25 01:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by bigred5825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it's wrong to be so damn shallow. She just gave birth and that's an amazing thing for her body to be able to do! I took plenty of care during my pregnancy and I still was shocked at how my body changed after giving birth. Half a year later, I was lighter than I was before pregnancy but my skin will never be the same and you know what? Who cares! I was able to grow and give birth to a whole new life. The only person here who has grounds for divorce is your woman for putting up with someone like you!
2007-09-25 01:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is not something she can stop. Some women get them some don't. Whatever you do don't criticize her weight while pregnant. She needs to gain weight or the baby's health and her health could be in danger. If you are concerned that she is not taking care of herself help her out. Make a nice fruit salad for a snack. That way when she needs a snack she can get a bowl. Also suggest taking a walk. Tell her you think it would be a good way to spend time together. My husband son and I go on walks as a family as often as possible. Whats good for one is good for another. Remember she will get tired and sore much faster than you. She needs breaks and lots of water while walking.
2007-09-25 01:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I can't believe you would say something like that. This woman carried your child for nine months, gave birth to it, and you are upset about stretch marks??? Some women are just genetically prone to them. Your skin is elastic, but pregnancy causes rapid weight gain, which causes skin tissue to tear, making stretch marks. In a couple years, you will hardly see them. Even when you only gain the minimally recommended amount of weight, they can occur. Stop worrying about some stupid marks, and worry about the beautiful new life that the two of you just brought into this world.
2007-09-25 01:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by MB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong for you to be angry with her.. do you know how hard it is to get back into shape after a pregnancy... apart from looking after you and the baby and barely having time for herself in between. Give her time to heal... It's not her fault for having stretch marks after birth... give her love and attention... she has given birth to a beautiful baby and all you can moan about it the fact that she has strectch marks... shame on you... how would you feel if you'd had to carry that child for 9 months im your belly and now you expect her to just be her old self and look like she did before.... shame on you...
2007-09-25 01:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by CJV228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're joking!! It's not her fault she has stretch marks - it's genetic! I have four sisters who rubbed every damn stretch mark remedy there is on their bellies during pregnancy and they all still have bad stretch marks. Don't be such an ***. If anything, she should be divorcing you, not the other way around....
although I have the feeling that you are just asking this to get people riled up. In which case, you should really get a life.
2007-09-25 01:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.P 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
You selfish, self centered, egotistical, controlling, troll. your wife just gave birth to your baby, and with all the Hell she has been through caring your baby 9 months all you want to do is give her a hard time because she now has a few stretch marks, that is ridicules and By all accounts, wrong of you. All women has some issue with there post baby weight gain, and it is hard enough to have to deal with it without someone as close as you are to her making it even more depressing and harder to deal with, BACK OFF HER. you know what. I hope she does leave your A** you deserve it!!!
2007-09-25 01:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rowan Red Tail Hawk 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What?!? A divorce over stretch marks? Wow are you even sure you are a man? Jeez... You can't really help about stretch marks!! She just gave birth to your child and you wanna divorce her over stretch marks?Damn where are you balls at? Yeah you go ahead and divorce her and tell the judge why you had to divorce you wife and leave your child because your sorry *** can't understand stretch marks... man that judge will make you pay LOADS of child support only because you are an idiot!! man more like it your wife needs to leave your sorry, ungrateful ***!! GOOD LUCK ASSHOLE!!
2007-09-25 01:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by marriedgirl@19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very wrong!I'm sure your wife doesn't like it either but it is to be expected during pregnancy.You try carrying a baby around and see what happens to your body.Wht would you be angry about something like that.Is she a trophy wife or what?Buddy you need to get a grip on life.Apperance is not everything.And as for it being a grounds for divorce.That is so stuiped.Did you fall out of love with her because of the stretch marks?You need to get you priorities straight.I'm sure you have have flaws on your body just as well.Get over yourself you don't need to be the one filing for divorce ,she does.It's men like you that make women feel so self concious about them selves.I have stretch marks from giving birth 3 times and it doesn't bother my husband in the least bit.GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You're an ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-25 01:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by flavagirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋