im complimented ALOT on like eyes(blue) and my hair(blonde) and everything and that im pretty and skinny and stuff but mostly by girls. i have alot of guy friends and everything but none that really hit on me(and if they do its mostly dorky guys). im really really friendly and nice and apparently pretty. why dont they like me?
2007-09-24 16:49:35 · 16 answers · asked by Luna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i smile like a crazy!
i smile and laugh in just about every situation!
2007-09-24 16:53:03 · update #1
i put a stupid pick on here before and asked people to rate me from 1-10 veraged to about 8s and 9s. if thats the case then whats wrong with me!!?!
2007-09-24 16:54:12 · update #2
ok i never said there was anything wrong with dorky guys. i love dorky guys. i have dated them their awesome but why only them like me?
oh and i dont usually approach guys because im kinda really shy sometimes.
2007-09-24 16:56:01 · update #3
OMG! im not 12. im 16. grrrr...
2007-09-24 16:56:51 · update #4
fear of rejection
they figure a girl like you probably has many options. Try approaching the guys you like instead of waiting for them to approach you.
2007-09-24 16:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...a pic of you would help :)
Firstly, girls lie about this kind of stuff. Most girls feel forced to always be nice, so they will always say nice things about someone. And most girls are social blind and think everyone looks good(and that's not true)
You might not give off a good 'girlfriend' vibe...you act more like a Friend or worse like someone not looking for anything.
A lot of guy Friends can easily scare other guys off. They will either think your already with one of the guys, sleep around with some of the guys, or will put those guys between you and a relationship.
2007-09-24 16:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because alot of times the guys will look at a pretty girl and assume she's already taken.....but, your comment about thew "dorky guys" implies that you also might be a little shallow as well, and that may show through and may be why you don't get asked......what's wrong with the dorky guys anyway? you may find they treat you better and will be alot better for you than any "hot" guy you may be lusting after.....what do you want anyway? a good time or a little stability and security in your relationship? think about it.....
2007-09-24 16:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two reasons...
The first, is most guys may be intimidated by your looks/personality and thus afraid to even try... except the dorks who figure they have nothing to lose anyway.
The second, everyone is really lying to you and being two-faced about what they really think.
My suggestion: Speak quite frankly with your closest (not-attracted-to) guy friends and ask them what they think about you as a person, your looks and why guys don't approach you. They will be honest if they are true friends!
2007-09-24 16:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by NY PTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine that all the guys hitting on you are dorky, maybe you're just stuck up, you want the perfect guy and your willing to ignore anyone that doesn't live up to what think you deserve.
2007-09-24 16:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by johnjacob01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what it sounds like, girl you are gorgeous. i think it's either guys think that since you are so pretty they wouldn't be able to get you. guys aren't exactly the brightest [sorry for any man that reads this], but it's true. guys get nervous just as much as we do. so just make a move on some guy you've had your eye on. he will probably be totally flattered and happy you made the move. i hope i helped and sorry if i made it confusing. haha.<3
2007-09-24 16:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evidently by saying "dorky" you are a snob.
and probably, you are about maybe 13 years old? 12?
you have just proved you are not to be trusted. you are not a nice girl.
2007-09-24 16:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u walk around with a gut hanging out or have a saggy butt? r u loud when u talk? do u aways make a negative remark on other people when u see them. do u dress sexy or wear too much make up? these things turn a guy off
2007-09-24 16:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by LEXUSRY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they fell intimadated by all your friendliness and energy. and that you do so well in math, they probably think you wouldn't even consider them "the average joes" interesting to you. teen years are so awkward anyway. hang out at more of the places the kinds of guys you are interested in hangs out at. that would send these guys the message that you are interested. good luck and best wishes.
2007-09-24 18:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gladys C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of rejection or maybe u laugh too much since u laugh at most situiations
2007-09-24 16:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋