hi..i like to share story with u all...i dont knw why...everytime and everywhere i go...i always meet many guys..and after i go out with them..they usually want to be my BF..tell me they really in LOVE me..said im beauty..cute..sweet...huh..always the same words..and how could i meet this kind of guys..really "fast" in love with me..HOW can i "RUN" away frm them??..everytime i asked them"why u LOVE me?"...u knw..the answer is..beauty...cute..sweet...they like the way i walk(cat walk)..pretty eyes and lips..the way i smile..and they said im very responsibility girl..well for me..there's nothing special i feel about myself..its hard for me to trust a guy..i just want to be friend with them..but they want to make me as their own..anybody can help me?...
2007-09-24 16:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jen@JG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the compliments for what they are , ways to get round you., feel lucky they think you're beautiful and smile and say thank you. BUT keep looking for Mr. Right" he's out there and will probably be a shy one who won't compliment you at every opportunity, but will love you for your self and deeply and with all his heart, but obviously you have NOT found him yet. makee sure you are not just a pretty face, be kind, thoughtful, smart, ( intelligent) and make "looks" the least important thing about you, THEN you'll find "Mr. Right"
2007-09-24 16:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being that I am one of those guys that would probably fall head over heals for you. You just have to do what they're doing,yes the average boy, well heck any boy that is interested in girls is going to say and do anything to score. So you lie to them. Tell them that you have a boyfriend, which really isn't a lie because I'm sure you have some friends that are boys. And if little white lies are not something you like to do, (I know I don't like them). You can lay the "Religion Trip" on them, That will cool the heals of many boys who are out to score. Or you can ask them to sign an Abstinence contract. Only the serious one ones will consider that. So now that you have whittled the pack of wolves down to the last few die-hards. Use the truth. Every guy hates these five words; "I really like you, but....". And if by chance there is someone that cannot take no for an answer or gets violent, run, don't walk, to the nearest police station because you do not need any Fatal attraction.
2007-09-24 16:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by ravenscardarkhope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them its not all about physical and that they should get to know you inside and out before they make those kinds of feelings known. Love isnt a word that should be thrown around so carelessly...
2007-09-24 16:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by me_myself173 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell guys the truth what is your feeling about them. and tell them which kind of relationship you want to be with them. but don't let they feel mistaken. just treat them as friends did. and find your Mr. Right finaly
2007-09-24 19:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can control you unless you let them
2007-09-24 16:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please i could hardly understand your story to many grammar errors...
2007-09-24 16:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by LuvULuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋