I dated this girl for a little while, and we broke up because of trust issues this past june, we got in a huge fight and haven't talked since. Out of the blue last week she just decided to start talking to me again, and after our last conversation, i could have sworn we would never speak again. Is she contacting me out of interest again? or am i just making a bigger deal than it is.
our last conversation before we broke up ended with me saying "Youre a ****" and hers were "youre a prick."
Part 2.) Should I get back with her? After the trust issues i had last time, i could have a hard time. But we get along so well, that at the same time its hard not to want her again.
2007-09-24 16:04:23 · 7 answers · asked by The Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and for all you wondering, she did cheat on me, but she was inebriated, and i hoped she was truly sorry, but i couldnt believe her. Now time has passed, and im hoping i can get past it.
That Tiffany, is why i called her a s-l-u-t
2007-09-24 16:18:28 · update #1
If trust was the issue, it will be again sooner or later. move on find another love and let this flirty one go. You deserve better.
2007-09-24 16:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the trust issues played a big part in your relationship. You need to prove to her that you're ready for a relationship and that it isn't going to happen again. I think that she may be thinking the same thing as you - but one thing is that girls usually don't like holding grudges against people they like. I would hate to be in a fight with anyone - even someone I hated and I would make efforts (after a period of time when things have cooled down) to mend the broken stitches. I think you should apologize to her - whether it was your fault or not - because it at least lets her know that you're sorry that it happened and that the name calling took place.
I think getting back is up to her - if she likes you, then sure, give it another shot, as long as you guys make some new rules to avoid what happened last time.
I think a good rule for you two would be "even after breaking up or something happens, we will always be friends" or something like that (corny, but it's important)
2007-09-24 16:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust is the basis of any relationship. If you guys broke up because of trust than its a bad idea to get back together. Just keep talking to her, but just as friends. Its better this way.
2007-09-24 16:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Raymond R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might want to get back together, misses you. Trust is the main basis for a relationship though. If you don't trust her, it's hard to feel comfortable in a relationship. You should think hard about how much you really do or don't trust her before you get back with her.
2007-09-24 16:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she HAS cheated on you then don't, if the trust issue is just you being parinoid about what she is doing behind your back then you have the issues, not her. You need to make sure you can trust her and then it will be a hit off. MAKE SURE you can both trust eachother and if she has a history of cheating don't date her :D.
2007-09-24 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously if she started talking to u again out of no where.....she enjoys talking to you meaning she probably wants you back again .....i think you two should try it again.....but give it time dont rush into it and both of you need to make some rules or something .....cuz there's no reason for you to be callin her a *****
2007-09-24 16:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may want revenge..lol
2007-09-24 16:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋