This guy I hardly even know at church who does flowers and decorations and weddings, likes to harrass me. He's called me a rich uptight bit&* when I was in church praying. One time I was looking at a picture of my boyfriend, and he comes up from beind and says who is that?? And leaves really fast before I could answer. He has even yelled right next to my ear in public gatherings. I have never spoken to this guy, or bothered him. What's his problem.
2007-09-24 14:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Baritone, did you hear me quite well. I don't even talk to the guy. This is in church were you pray and are quiet. He does this kind of stuff while I am praying. And I am at fault? Sorry very poor answer. (Church and religious answer related.)
2007-09-24 14:12:14 · update #1
Ask him politely what is the problem. Perhaps you can make peace. If he is not amenable to responding civilly, perhaps ask him with some mature and CALM person there; a neutral party might be better than someone who might leap to defend you. The point is to listen more than talk in this....
You make a point of mentioning sexual orientation; is his gayness a problem for you? Why is identifying him and yourself this way not gossip?
Is there previous history you are not mentioning?
Could he have poor hearing? That can cause one to be loud OR to miss social cues or to feel alienated...
2007-09-24 14:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by SC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a nut bar. Is it just you. Maybe you need to talk to your Pastor/Priest or whatever and tell them about the situations. Also, ask others. Maybe they have had encounters with this man as well. He may have some sort of psychological disorder. To me he sounds like he has Autism, which is not a psychological disorder. Just had to say that so people don't think I'm confusing the two and I get hate mail. Anyways, please talk to the leaders of your church and tell them about the behaviors and that you do not feel comfortable in a place you should feel comfortable in.
2007-09-24 14:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never have I seen a question placed in a more inappropriate category.
I also don't see what his being gay has to do with this behavior.
Perhaps he's emotionally disturbed, perhaps you're too sensitive. Although I think this tale says as much about you as it says about him, there's not enough information to assess the situation. Perhaps you should ask him, since he is the only one who is aware of the full circumstances.
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2007-09-24 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its not a matter of this person's sexuality- He is just an ***- sorry. Its still mean to bully girls :) *or* since he is acting like a whiney little girl and he is a grown man- kick him in the junk- :)
good luck :)
2007-09-24 14:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by EverydayExpert 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Name calling and messing with you shows a remarkable immaturity level. I'd confront him on this, tell him to stop, and if he doesn't, go the minister to see if something can be done. You are entitled to worship without being harassed.
2007-09-24 14:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Frootbat31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
though there is no excuse for his rudeness, how do you know he's gay. Wrong for a Wrong doesn't make a right.
2007-09-24 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by JFK fan--(Hug Brigade) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His problem is he's rude and obnoxious. Pray for him.
2007-09-24 14:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Cee T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous of your shoes.
2007-09-24 14:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy and he doesn't like you, that's all.
2007-09-24 14:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋