Ok well im thinkin of breaking up with my boyfriend...but he tells me things without you i would die or your the only reason im in school otherwise i would drop out...i broke up with him for one weekend but he went crazy and tried to commit suicide!! so i went back out with him i may not love him but i care about him ... i dont love him anymore i just dont know what to do someone please help me!!! please!!!
i just dont know!!
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thanks
2007-09-24 13:24:39 · 16 answers · asked by *~Rachel~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he controls his gaurdian/grandma he tells her what to do....he really cares about me and loveds me but i just dont love him...??
so confused on what to do
2007-09-24 13:50:34 · update #1
Ok. Let's see what I can do.
Suicide = Bad. Threats = Bad. Death = well...bad.
But, do not let him draw you in if you wish to leave. It's not worth it. And, if he is really that bad off, recommend therapy and warn his parents. But don't force yourself to go back there. You won't be happy, and neither will he.
2007-09-24 13:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is contemplating suicide, then you contact the nearest shrink to get yourself the help that YOU need and that he may need.You will break his power once you tell someone. It seems that this guy is being selfish and is using emotional blackmail to keep you, this is NOT a good relationship in fact if he can do this to you, it's not a good place to be in, RUN to the nearest exit, change your number and don't take his calls any more. You are NOT responsible for him, or his mental state or his actions, on he is. Don't let him manipulate you!
2007-09-24 13:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by judyrobins14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really good that you care about him but staying without feeling like you love or like him will only hurt both of you.suicide is very serious and you may need to get some help for him.talk to him thruthfully and let him know that you are there for him but that you are not feeling the passion you once did when you first met.
2007-09-24 13:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap..obviously he cares about you a lot or he just has some mental issues.
You could try talking to him about why he would drop out if you 2 wern't together. && if nothing works && you don't want him to commit suicide, stay with him I guess. there is such thing as falling in love. good luck!!
2007-09-24 13:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship like this i stayed with the guy for a little while longer but also you need to think about your life if he doesnt value his life do you think that he values yours i would let his parents know whats going on and then break it off.
2007-09-24 13:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by 4 Ever A Hustlers Wife!!!!!!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone older right away! If this guy is threatening suicide it's serious! If you really care for him, you'd tell someone. Obviously this guy is intent on you being is one and only girl. He's using threats to make you stay with him. He needs help, and right away!
2007-09-24 13:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by KC07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the biggest factor you will possibly be able to desire to fret approximately is the thank you to make your self satisfied. If he's not keen to alter, then particular, leaving him may well be your superb decision, otherwise it is going to harm you in the long-term. to interrupt up you ought to have a great style of pals attainable for you for convenience, and additionally you ought to tell him which you quite prefer issues to paintings and additionally you already gave him a great style of opportunities, yet in view that he won't be in a position to wreck his habbit, you will possibly be able to desire to wreck out. it is going to be stressful and extremely nerve racking, whether this is something you will possibly be able to desire to do. don't be completly on my own with him the two, this is an extremely undesirable theory. you have to be someplace the place human beings are around, yet delivers sufficient privateness to declare what must be suggested.
2016-11-06 07:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..thats pretty intense.
i am not quite sure to handle a sitiation like this but this is what i would do.
I would tell him/her that if he/she really loved me, then they would want what is best for me...i would say i just dont love you anymore but i care about you..i really do and the last thing i want is for you to get hurt..but the truth is, if you get hurt then i feel twice the pain for you...so if you love me..then let me go..
Just somthing like that..but i really dont know what else i could do to help...
sorry..and i hope u get through with this.
2007-09-24 13:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!
My sister-in-law was in the same position as you a couple decades ago. The guy brandished a gun and threatened himself if she did not get back with him. She convinced him to give her the gun but refused to go with him. If she went with him that day he would have killed her too he killed himslef with dozens of pictures of her around him.
My husband still has his sister because she knew when it was unsafe for her.
2007-09-24 13:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be going out of him because of threats. I'm sorry but youre BF is being extremely immature. You should tell his parents what he has said to you. Tell trusted adults before you break up with him. Let them figure it out. His whole life shouldnt have to be on your hands, because its not. Its his choice if he wants to be retarded.
2007-09-24 13:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋