I know this man, that after he separated from his ex became completely fixated with his daughter (3). When he is with her, he cuts off all forms of communication with the outside world, doesn't answer the phone, door, etc. because he doesn't want anything to interrupt his time with her. He is not practical about having anyone else in his life. Should it be a concern about his obsession with his daughter? It is really bizarre, forgetting to simply close the front door of his house and leaving it wide open for hours because he went upstairs with her. I find this behavior to be unhealthy for the child because she will always expect her way etc. Thoughts? References? Is there a name for this?
2007-09-24 13:19:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
No I don't think he is a pedaphile, I've seen the girl before and she is as happy as can be so that can't be it. I just think his fixation with her is extremely odd.
2007-09-24 13:35:30 · update #1
a few things could be going on here one being that he wants to make up for the time that he is missing with her so devotes all the time he has to just being with her. He feels the missing part of him by her not being around so whats to fill the times with great memory's he can hold onto when she is not around. take care good luck
2007-09-28 12:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she was only 3? That is called being a parent. I do the same thing with my youngest. I would much rather have fun seeing my daughter giggle while we color or do building blocks than answer the phone too.
Maybe he knows what she will turn into in 13 more years and is enjoying a phase in her life that is so very fleeting? I suggest this as I lived it from my oldest pain in the butt/teenager (younger teen is not mean though thankfully). So I eat up every second of my youngest one's cuteness.
Kuddos to the guy being a good dad and stepping up with extra time for her while mom is out doing who knows what now.
2007-09-24 14:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem other than an overactive suspicion? After all she is only 3. I recommend you read and he read:
Meg Meeker MD; "Strong Fathers-Strong Daughters"; Regnery Pub. Inc., Wash. D.C., 2006
Good luck in your approach to this, good health, peace and love!
2007-09-24 14:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you're nonetheless youthful as time is going in this previous inclusive of your dad will now no longer be an argument on your existence you're able to be a chuffed and properly adjusted person no remember what your mom and dad did or did no longer do time heals all wounds
2016-10-05 07:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by calandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.i don't know how the rest of you feel about this but the father needs some real help because no one knows what goes on in the house this could be why the wife left you see this is call incest according to the word of God a father shows love to his children and show affection to his wfe like Christ did for us.
2007-09-24 14:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by ianna 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its the nosy controlling b-i-otach syndrome. And to think people like you put their kids in hospitals when it should be the other way round.
2007-09-24 13:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by theroadwetake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal behavior for a grown man. I would be very concerned about what is going on. It might not be anything, but this is cause for alarm.
2007-09-24 13:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i hope the first post is wrong too.. it could be that he wants to spend as much time with her as he can.. so he just obessed..
2007-09-24 13:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope I am wrong and please God forbid, I hope he will not molest his own daughter.
2007-09-24 13:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋