okay my boyfirend and i have been going out for a little over a year and we are both attractive people,but he doesn't trust me with ANYTHING. i say something is better and he has to prove me wrong. but i get really close to my male friends which i can see y he is bothered but i'm not super close. i like just keeping in touch and just talking for a bit. noth big. but i have a myspace and i check it in front of my boyfriend and he always wants to read my e-mail and i don't really mind but i want him to trust me, so i don't let him read them.he just seems to want proof of everything and when we first started going out i did but now it's too much waork to make him happy. but my real question is... is there ANY way i could get him to trust me, like without the hassle of proving it too him or is it not worth my time??
2007-09-24 12:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.....he'd have to "go" -- did you give him your passwords too? That would be stupid. I've been married 25 years and we also have our own myspace and emails and neither of us know the others' passwords and that is fine with me......MY IDEA --- everyone needs space!!!! Just because you have "space" and a part of your life that is ALL YOURS (like I do too and I'm not cheating).....it doesn't mean anything. He's a bit much if you ask me but then again.....are you all kids or something??? He may just be immature.
2007-09-24 12:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word to the wise, you will never earn this type of persons Trust, Respect & Confidence.* I strongly suggest you reevaluate your relationship with this individual.* Get out of Dodge ASAP.*
2007-09-24 20:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is trusting you not wanting proof at every turn and there is nothing you can do about it --- he either trusts you or not --- and he does not which could mean HE is not trustworthy and so thinks everyone else is the same ---- best wishes
2007-09-24 20:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MYSPACE????? um delete it, it's not worth this drama. just tell him to relax and you not going nowhere and that he has to trust you and that it hurts you. explain to him how you feel, just have a little chat with him and be direct and calm.
2007-09-24 19:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Meow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur avatar name says it all
2007-09-24 19:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Frisco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋