should i hate my boyfriend?

Question

should i hate my boyfriend he said he loved me and called me babe and was super nice to me
then my bestfriend just told me
i hate to have to be the one telling you this cuz your my best friend but dan stoped me today at school and told me that he wants to break up with you cuz he doesnt want to hurt you and stuff and he said that he couldnt break up with you himself because he already feels like a dick....for some reasonn???
but if you need me to talk to him im here for you & again, i hate being the one to tell you this cuz i know it hurts and i dont like to see you hurt sooo im here for you :)

then i told my boyfriend dan it was over

and then my bestfriend said
well he was just like i dont really like her and she tells me she loves me and i said it back but i didnt mean it cuz im a douche and ahhh **** me!
thats what he said to me in the hallway and hes like i know she realllyyy likes me that why i dont want to break up with her myself so will you do it for me....
and at first i was like well ummm idkkk
then he was like pleaseee and i said ok ill talk to her about it soo yeahhhh


but me and my boyfriend talked it out and were friends.
but hes like telling my bestfriend that he never meant it when he said he loved me
haha thats fine but hes like i love you..i dont think you understand
and he didnt really have a reason to break up with me
except hes really stressed out cause his grandma has cancer and shes about to die

so i told him i understood and we can still be friends.

but he took me off his top on myspace and like
my 2 bestfriends are on his top
its weird should i hate him?
im so confused!

Answer 1

Thats what you get for getting into a relationship at an early age, did you really expect him to know what he was doing? Really? What I was a teenage not 6 years ago and I was sure as heck not going to let another teenager have my heart, but I'm wise like that. So learn from this and maybe learn that friends go deeper then highschool sweet hearts ever could. Seems your friend there showed more caring and compassion then your boyfriend did the entire relationship, I hope you learned something....