all muslims plz read it and anser all the things i ask.?

Question

ok i am 15 and i am a bad person a bad muslim allah helps me when i need his help he is mercifull but i have done sins in which he may have prolems forgivng listen i no its prohibited to masturbate and masturbate in ramadan but i have done it all the time i thought in the holy month of ramadan i will fast i will ask for forgivness i will stp masturbating but its not te way it is i masturbated in ramadan i must kill myself i dont deserve to live and i also broke my fast.....i wanted to no what is punishment of masturbating and and breaking a fast dont tell me i will have to fast other days when its not ramadan i want to no the punishment and how may i prevent it.plz answer it and add a couple of swearing in it i deserve it.

Answer 1

this is the month of Ramadan and ALL muslims r to refrain not only from food and water, but also sexual intercourse, or anything that has 2 do w/sexuality that includes watching sex on tv and/or internet...... masturbating is part of sexuality and Allah(SWT) has regarded these things as 2nd most sin a muslims can commit(shirk is number 1 sin in Islam)..... Punishment is unimaginable for those who do this in the month of Ramadan for satan is in jail in this month and u commited this sin , not misguided by satan, but entirely by you.... this means that evil is planted in your heart no matter what the circumstances cuz Ramadan is the best time to stay away from sins.......... but Ramadan is also the best time to ask for forgiveness...... if u really want Allah(SWT) to forgive u, pray as much a u can on the last 10 days of Ramadan and Allah can give u sawab as much as praying 700,000 nights of prayer and ur sin might be forgiven..... another way is that u can wake up around 2:00-3:00 in the morning and pray 2 nafal and that is the only time of the day when Allah(SWT) accepts your dawah.....dont kill yourself because u will double the damage u hav caused...........i am not going 2 use swearwords these days bcuz it's the month of Ramadan and i hope Allah(SWT) forgives u

Answer 2

First of all, you are only 15 years old and your body is going through lots of hormonal changes. Take the advice of our other fellow Muslim brothers and sisters and repent to Allah and ask for forgiveness. Allah is Most Gracious and Most Merciful. I am proud to say that I have picked up on my salah and my life seems to be on track. If you can't pray 5 times a day (I know it's hard, personally speaking), just try to have God on your mind at all times and also keep yourself as busy as possible and the time will go by fast and before you know it, it will be time to eat.

Get all of those suicidal thoughts out of your head and replace them with all of the good deeds you will get for fasting and having eternal Paradise in the end. If you really can't help it, go to the mosque after school one day and talk to a Muslim scholar (sheik) and he will help lead you to the right path.

Remember what you are doing is not wrong, but it's haram to do especially when you're fasting, there is no point to do it then. If you HAVE to do it, do whatever it is at night and then shower before bed. Fast the next day, the day after..., and so on.

You are still young and that's perfectly normal!!!

Answer 3

Even if you have done the worst kind of sins over and over again and broken promises with Allah for not repeating the same sin, Allah still forgives each time you pray two nafils and repent. Try to keep yourself busy in sports, reading or spending time with good friends and not be by yourself too much. Eventually Allah will give you strength to control yourself. Pray to God two nafils and reprent for forgiveness.

Don't listen to non-Muslims. Most of them know nothing about Islam but keep mouthing off against Islam and Muslims bcause if hatred they hold against us. They got attacked first time in 300 years in their home by crazy Muslims, so they hate entire Muslim world. Some of them curse even Allah as if Allah is a human. This is their level of knowledge they have about Islam and other religions and cultures.

Remember committing suicide is haram and punishment for suicide is hell fire. This life is a text from Allah. You have to spend your life within the society filled with all kinds of temptations avoiding the path that may lead you to committing a sin. Like going out with a girl. Eventually this will lead you to commit another sin and you will also embarass your family.

Penalty to break a fast without a health reason is either to fast 60 days or feed 60 poor Muslims. If you don't find poor Muslims, you can feed hungry people from any religion and even aetheists. You don't have to fast continuously or feed 60 people now. You have whole life ahead of you. Concentrate on praying Allah for forgiveness.

Answer 4

Allah is the Most Merciful.... Any sanction will be based on His Wisdom and Willingness and we are not accountable to doubt that.

Try your best to avoid that wrong doings not only for the Ramadhan but along the years. It's hard to changed, but, with hi-determination, insya Allah you will succeed. Try to miminize masturbating buy not being alone. You're lonely. Try to find a good companion ; bestfriend, fave books, hobbies. Try to make yourself busy and try your best not to think too much about sex.

Wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

Hello sister plz don't kill ur self that would be sucide and allah will put u into hell and u'll make it worser. So i will pray for u and a tecniqe that will help you is saying aothe billahi mina shadani rajem! maybe it is the shadyan making u do those stuff so just say those prayer and it will help you i swear! and if u say bismallhi tawakalto ala lahi wala hola wala gowata ila billah before u leave allah will prevent shadayns,jinns from ur head to ur feet and allah will protect u will i hope i helped if u need anymore questions u are welcome to conatact me at [e-mail]
wasalam!

Answer 6

i have been is the same place u have i want to tell u that Allah loves u but what he dose not like is the sins ask for forgiveness start praying try your best not to do anything bad when u start to think about masturbating think about something else to stop u don't say bad thing to yourself it will make u do more bad things think about Allah think about what u can do to starting doing good make a list of thing u can stop doing (just like i do) and thing u can starting doing
i hope this helps
May Allah help u ameen ....

Answer 7

ok before u do drastic thing here try some of these things ok send her some roses to tell you that u love her and you miss her verry m uch wait for her reply a day or 2 maybe 3 ok if you still havent heard from her write her a letter spill your heart and soul to her give the letter time to get there and time for her reply you waited 3 months whats a few more days right can she call u collect or can u call her collect i hope these things will help you good luck

Answer 8

Relax you just doing something that is normal and you will be forgiven for your sins, remember you must have a bath after you materbated to wash your sins away. You not a bad person all men are wankers man grow up, ans stop feeling quilty.

Answer 9

Ask yourself this: Why must you feel so guilty? It isn't worth hitting yourself over the head about it! If it keeps you from doing things which are indeed absolutely horrid, then don't sweat it. You're making unrealistic expectations for yourself. I think you've inficted upon yourself more than enough punishment to last a lifetime. Just forgive yourself and move on, for pity's sake.

Answer 10

i was trying to find u something from scholars about it , but couldn't reach it so far!!
so, plz keep trying for the sake of God , that is great that u have that waken conscious , with the grace of God u will stop that bad habbit , just pray God and don't get despaire from his mercy and from accepting ur prayers BUT u also have to have stronger will!!

good luck.
asslamo alikum.