I met a guy whom I've been with for a short amount of time, but he told me he couldn't get serious since he was travelling around.
After two months and a little travelling and no news from me to him and vice-versa, he called me back and invite me to a party. At the party, he seemed very happy to see me and we've chat a little. I didn't stay long because had to go elsewhere, so when I told him I was leaving, he had this strange deception reaction.. As I cheek-kissed him goodbye, he just held my arm firmly and told me 'hope to see you soon'...
I would really like to see him.. but what do you think? Should I wait for him to call since he was the one slowing things down in the first place?
2007-09-24 11:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Just give him a short friendly call. Tell him you just wanted to check in and see how things were going since you weren't at the party very long and you didn't get much of a chance to catch up. Play it casual.
2007-09-24 11:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your not playing with him!!!! If you want talk to him you got to take all. I mean he might be one of those big ole emotional train wrecks. Drama Drama Drama,! You can't just treat him like a yo-yo. Or just stay away and let him find someone else.
2007-09-24 11:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, call him if you want to live with a lifetime of "I'm not good enough for him and he'll never settle down with me...."
go ahead set yourself up for failure.
Oh BTW
Good luck-
2007-09-24 11:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait and if he doesnt call you back in a week, just call him to say hi and see if he stays on the phone
he travels a lot, and u gotta decide if you can make it work, and if you can be okay with that....
2007-09-24 11:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should call him this saturday 9.29.07, but on some friendly stuff jus to see where he's at (as in how he feels about u) just take it slow!
GOOD LUCK, I HOPE U GET HIM.!
2007-09-24 11:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by MINnie MOUse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he wanted more than to just see you at the party...and it also seems like you disappointed him when you had to leave.. hell ya call him. who knows where it'll lead.
2007-09-24 11:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Felix Arcanus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say call him if you want to, there is no sense in waiting for him to call you. go for it.
2007-09-24 11:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by blues1956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him call me :)
2007-09-24 11:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by L s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2007-09-24 11:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if u want??
2007-09-24 11:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋