how do you tell ur mom......?

Question

How do u tell ur mom ur not a virgin n e more???? =[

Answer 1

I think the best thing would just tell her when you are doing something with just the 2 of you. Like shopping or help her make dinner that way no one else with interupt!

Answer 2

You don't .... Just kidding.... I'm a mom of a 15 year old boy and I keep telling him that he will be the next 40 year old virgin.... I'm not being realistic....

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm sure your mom would appreciate the honesty but be prepared for her to not react the way you were hoping. I'm pretty open minded but some parents can't handle that MUCH openess. You know your mom the best.... Pick a time or place where you are feeling close and tell her that you want to talk to her about some things and get advice....

Good luck!!

Answer 3

First of all, Why would you actualy tell your mom? And if you felt like it was something so bad where you could not want to tell your mama then you should not have done it. But if she don't ask don't tell. But I can tell you it is not worth it but if you feel that it was good and you have plan to do it again "RAP IT UP", I am 31 years old and I start having sex at 14 years old and if I could do it all over again I probably would still be a virgin or my past would not be so bad. So please be safe take it from me having hiv aint pretty.

Answer 4

You dont the worst thing for a mother to hear is that there baby girl isnt a virgin anymore now if she ask you then you can tell her start off by saying mom you promise you wont get upset and then you can tell by there expression on her face if you can go ahead an tell her its no swaet but it really depends on how old you are not a 13 year old i hope. but just take it easy an use protection.

Answer 5

You didn't say how old you are, but I think I can help. My daughter told me she lost her virginity a few months ago. How do you tell her? First, make sure your mom is in a good mood, and not having a stressful day. Then sit down with her and tell her that you love her, and you appreciate everything she does for you, and all the lessons she has taught you. Then just come out with it. "Mom, I really love (insert your boyfriend's name here) and we decided to have sex. We used protection like you taught me to, and I just wanted you to know because I need to talk to you about it." Be prepared, she may not be happy, but you have to let her know that you want to talk about it. My daughter wanted to know why it hurt so much, and would it stop hurting after a while. She also wanted to know how to let her boyfriend know what feels good for her, and we had a very long conversation about it. I wasn't thrilled about her having sex, but I love her, so I talked to her about it. Your mother loves you, and she will support you, too. Good luck.

Answer 6

Shay if you have an open and honest relationship with your mom then you sit down with her and tell her the truth. Certainly I would suggest that you also inform her that you were practicing safe sex and that you are on the pill. Mom was once a virgin also and can identify with what your hormones are going through so don't sweat it too much. Good luck.

Answer 7

um...thats a hard 1.
it depends how old u r.
if ur young, wait until u r older 2 tell.
if ur not, then, well, i have no idea. just make sure that shes in a good mood when u tell her (if u do) atleast she'll appreciate u 4 being honest

Answer 8

u dont need to tell her if she doesn't ask
if ur mom is conservative and believes in sex after marriage don't tell right away (try starting to talk to her about sexual matters and stuff) her cuz she will be very dissapointed for a while, then she'll maybe make up her mind, accept it and will come to you to talk about it and help you with any doubts or whatever you may have.
if she is a liberal, tell her as soon as possible!! she will be very gratefull for the trust that you are giving to her and it will definately please her as a mother...

good luck!!

Answer 9

Remember that your mom lost her virginity once too. She might be disappointed a little but she will respect that you were honest with her. More importantly GET ON BIRTH CONTROL! If she won't take you then go to Planned Parenthood by yourself.

Answer 10

Well, be prepared for a breakdown. It is definitely not something a mother wants to hear. But, it is very good that you want to have an open relationship with your mother. Just explain that you have something to tell her and that she isn't gonna like it, but that you want to keep your relationship open and honest. Tell her you want to be able to talk to her about it to keep all the facts straight and so that you can do this all as safely as possible. She is gonna cry, but she is gonna appreciate your honesty. Goodluck!!