she didn`t know what to tell him because she really likes him an she dont want a baby at a young age...??????????so how do i help her to get over it???
2007-09-24 10:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
tell her she did the right thing if she is not ready then there is no shame in saying no. Also if he really loved her he would understand and it would not be a big deal. She will know when she is really ready and in love, and that will be the right time. Kudos for not giving in to peer pressure.
2007-09-24 10:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by bluefroggy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your daughter when she is ready she will be.. but as for the 18 year old he should have more brains and there is always more fish in the sea... I never had sex until i was 18 thats when i was ready and i wanted kids at 22 and i had my party life with my friends b4 i had kids.. tell your daugter to live life first and have a family later ..lol kick the 18 year old to the curb.. goodluck and i am thinking of you i know what it is like..
2007-09-24 17:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by aussie_female1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him no was a brave and smart thing to do, it's really hard to stand up for what you need rather than what you want. only time can help you get over it - so give it plenty of that. if he is worth giving it to, then he will wait until you are older. if you don't think you can handle caring for a baby, then you can't risk it, plain and simple. (i got pregnant while on the depo shots PLUS using a condom, so remember that nothing except abstinence is 100% fail-proof.) if he bails because he can't get in your pants, then he really didn't deserve that special gift anyway. because a guy likes you isn't a good enough reason to get it from you, there will be plenty of guys who like you. your job to yourself is to find one that deserves it by showing he loves you deeply and truly. anything less than that is not worthy.
2007-09-24 19:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by sleepycatz1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawww, I hope this is true and I'm glad your daughter said NO. she's only 15, praise her and tell her how good she did for herself and her body... make sure you tell her if the boy really loves her, he will wait, untill she's older... make sure you also tell her that it's a crime for an 18 year old to have sex with a minor. You should be proud of your daughter for not falling into such great temptation.
2007-09-24 17:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Optimistic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that her first time will happen only once. It should be with someone she cares deeply about, ideally someone she loves and who loves her back.
It's a very important gift, not to be squandered on a guy who doesn't absolutely adore her. Tell her she did the right thing, and that if she remembers how very precious she is, she'll know when it's the right guy and the right time.
2007-09-24 17:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me congratulate you for raising a daughter who can think for herself and make solid decisions. Tell her that your proud of her. That any boy who would pressure her and I assume dump her didn't love her anyway. Other than that it will just take time.
2007-09-24 17:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by dixie8026 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off explain to her that this guy must be a really good guy for her to like him so much and that if he really is a good guy, then he will understand why she wants to wait on having sex. and if he split, then he is obviously not a good guy and she will be better off without him? its hard for her to understand now but tell her she will find someone better that she has more in common with and he wont pressure her to do anything she is not ready for!
2007-09-24 17:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she said "no", keep telling her she did the right thing. If he only wanted to be with her for sex, then he didn't care,blah blah blah...
About all you can do is to comfort her. Hopefully she will soon realize that he would not have been worth it. Hopefully she won't decide that he is.
2007-09-24 19:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if that is all he wants that he is not worth having around. Does he know the laws? It is illegal for him to be having sex with a 15 year-old. She needs to also know that it is illegal. He could go to jail if they were to have sex and you reported him.
2007-09-24 17:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about yourself? cuz your only 15 so i dont think you got a 15 yr old daughter.
2007-09-24 21:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Tessa♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋