Okay well if you met me i'm really outgoing, loud, i have lots of friends. I do acting, dancing, gymnastics. If u met me, you would probably think i'm that happiest, bubbliest person ever. But inside i don't feel confident at all. Everytime i go out, i always say or do something that i wish i hadn't. Just little things like incase i've offended someone in some way, or come across as a horrible person. I do this every single day in life and then at night times i can't sleep because i can't stop thinking that i've ruined my life or scared that people are talking about me or that they don't like me. Sometimes i'm physically sick and i cry just thinking about it. I know this sounds totally crazy but does anyone have any advice on what this might be?
2007-09-24 10:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You should go talk to someone. It's a lot of insecurity. It could also be anxiety. An easy fix for both! Don't beat yourself up, just talk to someone and talk it out. That usually works best.
2007-09-24 10:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called being a "human being." We all suffer from various anxieties and concerns about how others will receive us. If we were PERFECT, then we would indeed be God. Calm down, be yourself and "relax" because God does love you very much. Remember this, What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. For everyday maintenance with the Lord, read (on a daily basis) Psalm 35 (Plead My Cause) - This psalm addresses that which is "known" and that which is "unknown." Any requests that you make will be heard by God. Of course, you must always present your requests in a sincere manner. The Lord will hear you and will give you that which is appropriate. I wish you well. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-09-24 11:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be worth talking to a therapist. But, I can tell you we worry a lot more about the possible mistakes we make when we are younger than when we are older. Do know that we all say not so great things at times and people may get upset at us. It isn't the end of the world. This is also how we learn. We might think about what happen and say to ourselves "well, I won't do that next time". You get better at it and upset people less as you grow and mature.
2007-09-24 11:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Read some self help books about the topic (there are plenty of them if you google it). Here you can find a good program (audio files ebook) that is helping me a lot. http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=296
Hope it helps.
2014-08-03 06:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social anxiety.. you've probably offended people less than you think if at all.
2007-09-24 10:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by itsjunglepat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋