im 19 and have been in a realatinship for 7 months and have recently discovred my boyfriend has been lying to me. A lot of things he told me when we first got together, i gave found out ar'nt true. Mainly small things but i just worry he could be lying about other things.He is a very good lier.He ofte goes off for hours in the evening and can never say exactly where he has been. IS HE TAKING ME 4 A MUG ???
2007-09-24 09:04:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, it really depends on what the lies are. like, are the small such as - I went to disney land when i was a kid, and he didnt - or large - i have a false leg, and he doesnt etc. he probably lied at the start to impress you. also,he is allowed to go out alone - you dont own him. my boyfriend went out for 3 hours yesterday and I didnt question him. he probably say his friends, swa his mum and went to the bookies to put a bet on. The thing is, I trust him and I dont think you trust your boyfriend and this is SO important in a relationship.
2007-09-24 09:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by shonkamur 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think that he is lying chances are he probably is as woman we have a thing called intuition, trust me its true because that feeling want come unless it isn't, but if u want to learn da hard way be my guess, you may be sorry later give up now an find someone who is honest, u only been with dis guy for 7 months try 7 years of lying it was hard for me to get out and Im still recovering, talk about drama, I know.
2007-09-24 16:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. and do yourself a favor now and get out. My ex was a liar too and it came down to me questioning every little thing he said or did..because the trust was GONE.
What you should do is confront him and just tell him straight up that you will not be with someone who lies and betrays.
Do it now because its true you dont know what to believe...the lying is a sickness that only he can get help for ..there is nothing you can do about it.
Good luck and sorry its happened to you...be more cautious with your next relationship.
2007-09-24 16:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by kakeydec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, let me say this he is lying right thru this teeth to you so kick his *** to the curb but first you should tell him why your breaking up with him and do it face to face nothing is worse than gettig a phone messege or text messege that you been dumped just be up front and honest and tell him how your feeling and if he cant give you some answers about where he is spending his time when he goes out you have to break it off, just clean cut no bull and say good bye to the hassle of a lying boyfriend who needs that anyway? so talk to him if you dont get some satisfactory answers tell him theres the door dont let it hit you in A*&!
2007-09-24 16:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A white lie here and there never hurt anybody, but going off for hours at a time and not telling you what he is doing is not a good sign. Whether he's up to anything or not, you are never going to be able to trust this guy.
2007-09-24 16:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by magenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't be sure from the limited info! Many males like to give the best possible impression of themselves at the beginning of a relationship, and tell little white lies to avoid sounding less attractive! Could be the answer. If it bothers you so much, confront him.
2007-09-24 16:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young and should be enjoying yourself not spending time with someone who is incapable of telling the truth. You will never be happy with a liar. They are the worst. By staying with him you are sending a message to him that you will put up with this sort of behaviour - he will never change for you and he doesn't respect you.
You deserve much better than that.
2007-09-24 16:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would certainly have doubts if i was in your position. I am a believer that if someone can lie about a little thing, it is totally possible that they will lie about something much bigger. I think that its time you sat down and had an honest chat with him, and then u can take it from there, but don´t stand for any cr@p
2007-09-24 16:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lying is never a good basis for a relationship ........because even a little lie sows seeds of mistrust and tehn the relationship is in effect over.
2007-09-24 16:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the wise prophet Snoop Dogg once said
''Drop it like its hot''
This applies to him.
X If He Really Loves You He Wont let You Go X
2007-09-24 16:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋