ok about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend because he moved and i didn't ever get to see him. well friday night i went to a football game and he was there (i'm not sure why) and while we were there he asked me back out and stupid me said yes. well now he's back at his house and i'm not going to get to see him. and to make things worse i'm starting to like other guys(i know that really bad) and i can't break up with him again because it will break his heart. how can i make him break up with me? i know that's a weird question but i really need an answer
2007-09-24 08:18:09 · 15 answers · asked by K<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um. First, you have to figure out who's happiness is most important to you! Yours or his?!
Would you rather hurt his feelings for a little while or would you rather make yourself do without for a long time by 'lying' to him?!
Do what makes you happy. Sure, he'll feel bad, but not forever and he'll get over it.
Just tell him that the distance is just too overbearing for you and you can't handle it.
Tell him that you still like him a lot, but you need someone there with you, not just a voice on the phone.
Hope this helped! Good luck! :)
2007-09-24 08:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by whynotme_ldh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's a good question! You don't want to make him do anything, though. I think the best thing to do is to talk to him and see what he thinks. While you're away from each other, why not see other people, like that. If he doesn't agree, then I would just say okay, that's fine, I'll stay with you, you know? I think if you really care about him, you'll respect each other's opinions and decisions and everything should be fine if you just talk to him and see what he thinks. I think that you should talk to him because it's the best thing to do, to be open and honest. He'll respect you for that, he doesn't sound like a bad guy. I hope everything goes well and you have good luck with it!!:P
2007-09-24 15:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by UniversalGalaxy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be mean to make him break up with you. Tell him that you cannot take not seeing him and that it is not fair to either of you. Tell him that you still want to be friends but the whole boyfriend thing is not going to work long distance.
2007-09-24 15:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I would have to say that you are making the whole thing much more complicated than it needs to be. If he lives far away, he is not going to be able to spend a lot of "quality time" with you. If you are thinking of other guys, it is perhaps time to move on regardless of the consequences. He will get over it and so will you.
2007-09-24 15:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can't believe you'd break up just because of a distance thing. oh well. you learn to manage. if he's the one for you - the distance thin will work out.
you aren't being very honest. best thing is to tell him the truth and quit leading him on.
2007-09-24 15:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by art_flood 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of my friends usually get the picture from a women like that when the girl begins calling the cops on them when they're drinking....then the guy gets a restraining order and all that stuff. Nothing suggests leave the girl alone like a night in the pokey after being accused of assault.
2007-09-24 15:22:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
first of all, can i just say, Megg, you are simply cruel.
getting back to u, the best thing to do is be honest with him and hope he'll appreciate it.
trying to get him to break up with u is just wrong and it is very unlikely to happen by the looks of it.
be honest and explain to him that it's just not meant to be. i would understand it..
2007-09-24 15:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by mitraj m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
break up with him anyway... you have a long road ahead... with plenty of broken hearts along the way... yours included... which would be worse... you breaking up with him and his feelings getting hurt or him finding out you are with other guys and getting his feelings hurt... don't wimp out... do what is right... if you want other people, end this first... good luck!!
2007-09-24 15:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Simple. Tell him that you annoyed that you can't see him. Keep complaining about it. Either one of two things will happen, he'll come over and you'll get to see him, or he'll realize how almost impossible it is and he'll break up saying it just can't happen.
2007-09-24 15:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just break up with him..if you arent happy just do it. He will get over it.
2007-09-24 15:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋