Is there a spell I could cast to bring the romance back into my relationship? It's not that my relationship is bad or anything, it's just that with all of our adult responsibilities, honestly, we hardly have time for it anymore. We are so tired coming home from work, that all we want to do is sleep, or chill.
I understand the rule of three, so I would prefer nothing that messes with free will. Just something general, that might help me with my problem. Thanks a bunch! Blessed be. :o) (and please don't tell me to pray for it, that doesn't work). . .thanks. ..:o)
2007-09-24 07:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
This is not a question for christians, please respect my choice of religion, thanks.
2007-09-24 07:35:57 · update #1
Then why do they have loads of books on sex and love spells? Wtf? Does anyone know what they are talking about?
2007-09-24 07:41:37 · update #2
Generally the wiccan way would be something not aimed at him, but aimed at you. Something general would not work as well as something specific so you might want to pinpoint the area to be worked on abit more.
You might want to research some herbs or crystals that will help you against the tiredness/chill thing after work.
As for a chant, just guessing but maybe something along the line of "I am desirable" (longer of course, referring to the circle maybe, hand motions such as sliding down your sides, and of course the rule of 3). Boost your own desirablity level and he is likely to pick up on it.
2007-09-25 05:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Gandalf Parker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The love and sex spells books are written by people who want to make a quick buck off the gullible.
As for the problem at hand, I'm in the same boat--both I and my husband are away from the house twelve hours a day, five days a week. We've eliminated any problems that could be adding stress between us (such as issues that we need to deal with) and at this point it's a matter of us being *tired*.
Check your diet and make sure you're eating well--a poor diet, skipping breakfast, etc. can contribute to low energy. Same thing goes for sleep--make sure you're getting a good amount of sleep, but not oversleeping. 8 hours is pretty good.
Make time to be with each other. We don't have a TV, except a small one for the Playstation (which only gets used a couple times a week). We do go for walks with each other around the neighborhood and just talk to each other the whole time. We also go hiking on the weekends. And we work magic together at times.
The thing to keep in mind, too, is that relationships naturally ebb and flow as far as passion goes. You may just be at a low spot. Give it time, and don't stress. Make sure, though, that there aren't any problems under the surface that aren't getting talked about. Also, see if there are any extenuating circumstances you can change--can either of you look for a less tiring job?
2007-09-24 15:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lupa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, focus on your husband rather than working a spell. If you're tired, examine your diet and see if you are getting all of the nutrition that you need. Also, are you getting enough rest and exercise?
Pick one night a week that can be your date night. Get a sitter for the kids, and go out or stay in if your sitter is taking the kids elsewhere. Light candles and have a romantic dinner. Doesn't have to be expensive to spend time with your love. Try something new in the bedroom - edible lotions, etc. Most important of all - communicate!!!!!
(Been married 20 years now!)
2007-09-24 14:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Janet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know what you mean... but if you have the time and focus to work a spell, you have time to get with your husband.
Schedule it in if you have to, but that action is the most potent spell force you could cast in the relationship ;-)
2007-09-24 14:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by KC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not what magick is for. Relationships require actual work. Why not try checking out a book on the Kama Sutra?
2007-09-24 14:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Keltasia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
magick is not a recipie book. it is a means of focusing your Will. Emotion fuels your Will, while the implements provide it's focus. Knowing these things, you should be able to use proper symbolism and create your own "spell". good luck.
2007-09-24 14:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
spells and what not are a load of crap, just like religion. work for your relationship, that is the best you can do. if it wont work then, than you need to move on, aint no spell to help that.
2007-09-24 14:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Josh W 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Spells don't work on lazy people that aren't willing to do the work needed to keep romance in a relationship.
sorry, it just don't work that way.
2007-09-24 14:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are many ways to bring magic back to your relationship, and none of them involves spellwork
2007-09-24 14:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋