christians : adultery if not married?

Question

this is when someone is married and either the woman or man watchs an other person with lust or cheats or anything from the sort right? but what if someone doesnt have a wife not even a gf and watchs porn or anything from the sort is it still bad or adultery? even when he has no partner ( nor married, gf )

Answer 1

Excuse me! Between two people who are married, there is nothing wrong with arousal, passion, and sex!
If you are not married, and you are attracted to another person, that is the sign of a healthy libido! Nothing more! Do not let people ruin, or give you bad advice about sex! Because sex is a gift from nature, or god, if you believe in Him. or whatever!
I fail to see why Christians have to try and make sex bad, and dirty, when it is neither! It feels good, because it is designed that way! So why make it ugly, or put it off limits to everyone! Sex should be normal, for everyone over the age of eighteen!
If you are religious, don't try to press your backward views on everyone else!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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If she became divorced from her first husband, and it wasn't out of adultery, then yes she is guilty of adultery. But there is grace which covers her as long as she has repented of her sin. This is assuming that she initiated the divorce. If the former husband intiated the divorce then he has caused her to commit adultery and, again, there is grace to cover her in her new marriage. Otherwise, any children which she might have would be born into uncleanness.

Answer 4

Adultery today is defined as a married man or woman having sex with someone other than their spouse. Watching porn or looking at someone might be considered rude in some circumstances, but not adultery.

Adultery in Old Testament times was a married woman having sex with someone other than her husband. Who the husband had sex with was no one's business but his, unless with a woman married to another man.

Two people having sex when not married is fornication, and nothing much was said about that in the OT, unless the girl was a virgin, in which case the guy had to pay her father the price normally paid for a virgin bride.

Answer 5

Its very confusing when you watch porn and most of the porn stars are wearing crosses and crucifixes and then the Christians claim its all bad. I think the real number of really believing, committed Christians is really more like 1% of the people claiming to be Christian in all those surveys and they just claim to be Christian because they were raised that way, its socially acceptable, and they really don't know what else to do but they still do all the things that the committed Christians claim the atheists do like make porn movies, run mob gangs, and such. Its really a weird situation. Glad I'm a skeptic.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

According to the teachings of most Christian churches, viewing pornography is sinful - since lusting after anything material, including other humans, is considered covetous. It is my considered opinion that too much is made of sexual sinfulness in the eyes of most churches. Sinful behavior whether sexual or non-sexual is equally wrong. Cheating on your wife is no worse than lying to your boss and homosexual behavior is no worse that disrespecting your parents, however, we as humans thrive on the tituallating nature of sexual indescretion and therefore will focus more on those acts than those which we are most prone to committing ourselves. It's much easier for us as humans to point the finger at someone else and say he or she is committing fornication than it is for us to look inward and say I displayed a lack of control in dealing with my children or I cheated my neighbor on a business deal.

After reading other comments, lets make it clear that I am not pushing any religious viewpoint, merely clarifying the position of most major Christian religions for the person who asked the question and stating my position on sinfulness based on the premise of what is and is not sinful from the church's viewpoint. Quite frankly I don't even know if the questioner is Christian, and my own viewpoint on sexuality is quite different from that presented by most churches.

Answer 8

Watching porn is not considered adultery.Extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage of a woman and cocubinage is for a married man having an affair.Both is punishable by law.
You ask if it is bad to watch it depend on a person perspective.

Answer 9

Yes. The apostle Paul even addresses this problem - "Better to marry than to burn [with passion]".

1Cr 7:8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.


1Cr 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

Christ addresses this problem also:

Mat 5:27 ¶ Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:


Mat 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

Answer 10

Yes-it IS adultery!

Matthew 5:27-28 (New International Version)



Adultery
27"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.