pain during sex...?

Question

me an my bloke have always ad a good physical relationship but during the last few months every time we do it it kills and i often bleed. this never used to happen. we tried lubricant (even tho i didnt have a..ahem..problem with that) and it still hurt and made me bleed.

i'm too scared to see a doctor as they will want look and prod about lol.

could it be something to do with using tampons???

Answer 1

what is happening is not normal and i went thru the same thing last year. I went to my doc and he was cool about it, i had a smear, and that came back normal. I was refered to a gynaecologist, and they diagnosed an ectopian cervix, which was sorted by some freezing therapy, and was over in 5 mins. You should really go, you are far more important to let yourself wait until things get to bad!!

Answer 2

HI,
Its got nothing to do with using tampons.
I would really go to the GP as they will be able to find out why you bleed during intercourse.
It's true, they will poke and prod but bleeding is a serious matter and delt with A S A P.
With the pain,try to relax alittle.the more tense you are the more tense the muscles will be.
I hope this helps

Answer 3

Go to the doctor, as they are the only people qualified to diagnose exactly what it is. Dont be scared, doctors see that sort of thing all the time, and honestly its not as bad as you imagine. You should ask to see a female doctor when you make an appointment which should make you feel more comfortable. The quicker you go to the doctor though, the quicker you can get it sorted and hopefully start having pain free sex again.

Answer 4

You should always get checked out if you've pain and bleeding after sex.It's not nice going to the drs to be prodded about i agree,but better to look after your health.You don't want to start dreading having sex for fear of the pain etc,so nip it in the bud now and go get checked out.You may just have a little infection that can get cleared up quickly-things can get worse if you leave it.Ask to see a woman dr and take your other half with you for moral support-he can always wait outside.x

Answer 5

You may have a condition called vaginismus - you may have thrush which is not unusual in new relationships - get rid of tights - you may not be taking long enough over foreplay. some women are dry and you can buy lubricating gels but this needs you're Doctor to check it out. If you have had bad sexual experiences in the past this may have a bad psychological effect but either way to the docs you must go

Answer 6

tampons should'nt cause this,you're not naturally lubricating,although i can't suggest what the bleeding would be,go and see the doc anyway & enquire of what will be involved,are you up to date with your pap smears?the longer you leave it the worse the problem may get,please go and see the doc!! try reading the link i provided,as they say it could be not enough estrogen.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

You need to see a doctor. It could be a sexually transmitted infection or even cervical cancer! (yep, that's a symptom and yes I am trying to scare you into seeing your doctor. It's for your own good missy!) Using tampons? No, I doubt it.

Answer 9

maybe, stop using tampons for a while, if this keeps happening i think you should go to the doctor if you dont wanna have that pain...

Answer 10

call the NHS direct or get to the doctors, no point in asking on here.

Good luck