Pain after sex, normal?

Question

Last night, me and my fiance had sex. We kind of got a little crazy before I was warmed up. He was deeply penetrating and being rough when all the sudden I had intense excruciating pain through my entire pelvic area all the way up to the edge of my ribs. It was so bad that it lasted for about 30 minutes straight. I had to lay down and relax for it to somewhat subside. The rest of the night I couldn't move without being "caught" by the pain (although not as severe, it was comparable and mainly isolated to the vagina, lower pelvic area). There was no bleeding, though I was unable to go to work today (my job is a bit strenuous so I decided it was best to rest, which would make this my second day at this job to ever call in sick). When urinating, I had some serious pain when I stopped. It was a lot like my occasional menstrual cramping that feels like a knife. The pain is nearly gone, but earlier I couldn't lay on my side or twist my torso.

I'm sure it was just from the rough sex, but I would like to know if anyone has had similar experiences.

Thanks.

When I move to quick or sit down too quick, it's like everything down there tightens up and it hurts.

I don't think I've ever been as scared as I was last night, it was really bad.

don't worry, He wasn't even trying to be rough. I just wasn't warmed up and we were in a position that kinda gets a little deep, which was stupid on my part, but it happened so.....

It was instantaneous pain which is subsiding, which leads me to think it is more of an acute injury, rather than an infection.

Answer 1

I have had this happen to me before thru rough sex and very deep penetration so i know what you're going thru! man does it hurt! Don't worry unless it doesn't go off after a couple of days, i normally end up with menstrual type stabbing pains for at least two days afterwards. Just rest up and try not to do anything to stir it up and you should be fine.

Rough can be fun but its not without its after affects!

Answer 2

i have been having painful sex for the last 3 months, this could be due to a few different things,

a- you need to make sure you are very moist before penetration becuase it can catch skin or pull muscles and cause horrible pain during and after sex

b - you also get pains during and after sex if you are due on in the next couple days.

c- or possibly you vagina could be tilted the wrong way. sounds weird i know but if you arrange to speak to your doc he can do ultra sounds and other examinations, basically its when you body is growing but you vagina moves instead of developing, roughly 75% of women get it between the age of 20 - 30 it is completely normal and wont cause you discomfort for ever.
you will learn to work around, there will be certain positions that hurt more than others.

i hope i have helped a little, take care x

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It is bruising internally and probably a bit of external as well. Perhaps your boyfriend should have some lessons in care as that area of a female is delicate and needs to be treated gently. Also he could have entered too soon and the natural lubricant had not worked all over.

Answer 5

Hi,
Sexual intercourse is not merely a physical act with your partner. It is important that both of you are ready for it and enjoy it for fulfilment. It is, therefore, necessary that the mood be right and both partners be adequately aroused sexually. Arousal can be heightened by foreplay, which is an important part of intercourse.

In foreplay, the partners fondle and kiss each other, and stroke each other's genitals. This increases the sexual urges and also lubricates the sex organs to facilitate a pain-free intercourse. As a result of the sexual arousal during foreplay, the man’s penis becomes filled with blood, causing it to become erect. This process is called an erection.

Sexual intercourse involves the male inserting his erect penis into the vagina of the woman. This must be done slowly and gently so as not to cause much discomfort to the woman. In a virgin, the initial insertion can be extremely painful, and this discomfort may be reduced with the help of lubricating creams. After this, the penis is moved forward and backwards in the vagina without withdrawing it completely. This rhythmic motion is continued till both partners reach their orgasm. An orgasm is a feeling of extreme pleasure that starts from the genital region and washes over the whole body. It ends in a climax, which is a state of heightened pleasure for both the partners.

In the male, the orgasm is usually reached with the discharge of semen. In the female, there is a white discharge from the vagina. After an orgasm is reached, the male’s penis becomes deflated again and comes out of the vagina easily.

Newly weds must be aware of the contraceptive devices that are available. Unwanted pregnancy may be avoided with the help of condoms or contraceptive pills for which a doctor must be consulted. Condoms are also extremely important to reduce the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS. While using condoms you must be careful of the following:


The condom must be rolled onto a fully erect penis

While rolling the condom care must be taken to press out all the air that may collect inside

After the act, the condom must be carefully taken out of the vagina along with the erect penis

The condom must never be reused.

Answer 6

Maria may have hit on it... a mis-positioned uterus.... which flipped over when your position changed.... or... and this is a real stretch.... you could have a torsion of the bowel.... if there's a problem with you moving them, see the doctor fast.... I'd suggest you see one anyways and explain what happened here.... let's get you checked out and get a handle on this stuff before the wedding and honeymoon!!!... right????.....

Answer 7

i've had sharp pains after sex when urinating do to rough sex. as for the other symptoms no but my advice is lay off the rough sex for awhile and maybe see a doctor if it gets worse

Answer 8

Why did he penetrated you in brutal ways! He should did it in gently manner by gradually pushing deeper and deeper gradually. However, if he did the foreplays before likes sucking, licking your vagina before he inserted his penis into you, it's a great helped if you had been firstly lubricated for finer penetration successfully with out too much pain.

Request him and remind him in your next lovemaking to make more gently, have more and longer foreplays to have lubricated before he penetrate you inside for painless purpose.

Answer 9

you need to stop with that kind of sex. you probably tore something internally. use lube if you have to. you don't want a UTI or something. bacteria can enter the body through small tears in the vagina. BE CAREFUL! let him know if he's hurting you.

Answer 10

It is not normal to experience that kind of pain in normal sex. I suggest you see a doctor.but before doing so discuss with your partner.