2007-09-23 20:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it's not problem at all if your husband is your boyfriend too.if not leave any one and confess. then discuss with the rest. i think sooner is the best
2007-09-23 22:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy did you pick the right guy for this one. Been cheated on twice by now x spouces. Finally found a faithful one. How about be faithful to your husband? To your vows? That would be a start. Secondly, if you are going to do something like that and not even know what to do about the possible consequences... then I revert back to my first point... being faithful to your spouce. People go and cheat on their spouces and then find themselves facing the fact that sex does in fact create children and then we dont know what to do. Im sorry but the facts are the facts.
(1) Tell your husband that you cheat.
(2) Tell your boyfriend or other person that you are married if he doesnt know.
(3) Prepare for some very bad times as a result of some very bad decissions.
(4) You now have a responsibility to a child who you have brought into this world. Its time to become responsible from this point forward.
Im not telling you what you want to hear. I am telling you what you need to hear. The truth is ALWAYS the best route. If you dont think your husband will find out... trust me he is going to. The problem that got you to this point right here and now is the fact that you have been making selfish decissions. Now that a child is in the picture you have a responsibility that requires selfless decissions.
2007-09-24 04:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kerrick C 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You really have yourself in a mess.
Here try this ovulation calculator, and see who you had sex with during the time you were ovulating http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator
If you did both of them in that time frame, you are really screwed.
You really should be honest with your husband; it's a horrible thing to put someone through, especially if he is not the father.
But, if you want to be deceitful or scarred still, when the baby is born, take the baby and the boyfriend to get a paternity test. If he's not the father, great, it should be your husband's right. If he is the father, you best better tell your husband right away.
2007-09-24 04:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by aljea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start living an honest life. The last thing you want to do is wait until the kid is 15 years old and spring on him/her that the man they've known as their father might not be. That would be bad for the father too. Stop being selfish, be honest, and take a DNA test after the baby is born. Whichever one is the father has a right to know.
P.S. This is why I never want to get married.
2007-09-24 03:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Tell your HUSBAND the TRUTH! Get a DNA test after the baby is born to determine the paternity. If the baby ends up being your husband's child, great. Hopefully he will forgive you for your indiscretion. If the baby ends up your boyfriend's, he better fork up child support.
Only God can help you in the mess YOU created.
2007-09-24 03:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by mx3baby 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well first you can choose what you wanna do keep the husband or the boyfriend, no sense in keeping both thats why you are here asking the question now. Then get to a dr and figure out when you got preggo and start back tracking cause this could turn out like a cigarette at a gas station and just blow up!! good luck!!
2007-09-24 03:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by kmcarter82 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Ouch. Be honest. Right from the get go. Its the best option. And wait for the baby to come so that you can find out for sure with DNA testing.
2007-09-24 03:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by Krysten 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
omg! When is you due date? Do you remeber when you had sex with either guy. The same thing happen to me with my son. I was going through a bad time with my boyfriend we were on the verge of breaking up. We had sex that Sunday. Then on Saturday I got really drunk with some friends from work and have sex with one that I thought was hot. Well I ended up pregnant and it wasn't my boyfriend baby. We had been together for 5 yrs. I was afraid to tell him but it best to be honest with him. We have a 4 year old daughter then my 10 month old son and I'm 8 months pregnant with another littlle girl. He forgave me because he mad some mistakes. He was there for me through the whole pregnancy and everything just like he was with my daughter so I think you should talk it over with your husband if you really want to still be with him. Good luck
2007-09-24 04:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by proud mommy 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
good lord.
#1. ARE you pregnant?
#2. ARE you a dumbass?
#3. ARE you a hoe?
#4. take a pregnancy test
dump the boyfriend, and tell your husband. if he decides not to change the locks, you need to work your butt off for forgiveness. personally, your butt would be out the door faster than you can say E-P-T.
2007-09-24 03:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 3⤋
there isn't much you can do. I read that DNA testing can be done in utero, but I would suggest not finding out unless you want to open that can of worms.
2007-09-24 03:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋