My friend some times scratch my back for no reason, i mean i dont ask her to do it but she puts her hand on my back and scratch it. why is she doing that? i ask her and she said "i am just scratching your back" what answer is that?
2007-09-23 19:46:20 · 16 answers · asked by whothiknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I did mind it a little but it tickel too. i rather ask for my back scratch then not asking. cus i am very tickelish.
2007-09-23 20:03:23 · update #1
The answer you asked for. Some people are completely comfortable around other people and touching other people. Some people are not comfortable with it at all. They take it the wrong way. If it makes you uncomfortable tell her. Just say hey, I don't want to offend you but when you do that I feel uncomfortable. Sometimes being blunt is best, because she probably doesn't know it bothers you since it wouldn't bother her if you scratched her back.
2007-09-23 19:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by fleur_loser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dont panic it probably doesnt mean she fancies you ,maybe she just needs to feel close to someone needs the reaussurance of another human contact..perhaps she comes from a family that isnt into cuddles and rather than ask you for a hug she scratches your back.i wouldnt read too much into it but if it bothers you ask her why she does it.
2007-09-24 02:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she could fancy you and this is her way of getting close to you... being affectionate by doing a gesture or scratching.
but then again she could want to hurt you and will soon ''accedently'' scratch some skin off. haha
but unless shes a pysco then i wouldnt worry about it.
it could be love on her part.
2007-09-24 03:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might just have a mildly obsessive nature. That she is doing it proabably means she trusts you enough to let it out. If it's bugging you just tell her to stop.
2007-09-24 02:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to scratch hers
2007-09-24 02:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Qball 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes to make you feel good. Do you like to have your back scratched or not? if not, then tell her you don't like it. other wise enjoy it for what it is.
2007-09-24 02:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh lol its either a lesbo thing or she just pure and simple developed a habit of scratching other ppls backs
2007-09-24 03:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, if you don't like it, ask her to stop. I don't know if it matters why. All kinds of funny ideas pop into my head--but in the end it doesn't matter why. It only matters if you ask her to stop if you don't like it. Otherwise, don't worry about it.
2007-09-24 02:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, maybe she does it cus that's her way of being friendly, if it bugs you tell her that you feel kinda weird about her doing it.
2007-09-24 02:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey she's just being a bit over freindly, if you don't like it mabey you should let her know that she's getting a bit too close for your comfort.
2007-09-24 02:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Villain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋