2007-09-23 18:44:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Because their parents didn't teach them the value of sex-free courting leading to marriage or contraceptives were not used (they can fail, but, for stopping pregnancies, they seldom do).
2007-09-23 18:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Caninelegion 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many reasons. Firstly they might not want the father involved? But I think a lot of the time they don't know that the guy doesn't want to help. The guys can be all nice and everything - often for years - and it doesn't come out until later that they're not all that interested in the kids. Maybe the guys didn't even know themselves. Probably so many men that if only those who wanted kids got their women pregnant, there wouldn't be many babies around.
Plenty of men leave their wives when the kids are 5, 10 etc. being married does not mean you've found some perfect guy and it'll all be okay.
For eff's sake gynodoc which planet are you living on? I am a human being with my own desires too thank you not merely a "candy store" for guys to badger me into "giving away". I would not want a guy making promises he can't keep just because he wants some "candy" nor would I want to be stuck in a loveless and/or cheating marriage just for the sake of it, or so the children have two live-at home parents (who might not get on). Being cautious about who to trust, using contraception, and having back-ups plans, are more important than running around looking for something permanent from the word go.
2007-09-23 18:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got preganant at 16 by a man who never supported my son, but i did not purposely try to. He was 10 years my sr., I was just naive and did not know better. I have not had another child, just this one because i know how hard it raising a son by myself. I man now 33. There are some women though, who keep having these kids by these no good men. If He is not taking care of his first child, why would u want to have a kid with him. If i had a daughter today i would tell her first to find a man that treats his mother right, secondly a man that has his priorites straight, get married and then have kids.
2007-09-23 18:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many of the smoothest talkers tend to be that way because they want something from you and don't care if they have to trick you into thinking they're really romantic and wonderful people in order to get it. That kind of individual (be it a man or a woman) tends to be too self-obsessed to care about kids, though they don't mind doing the things it takes to make them.
Some charmers are genuine, of course, and love kids. But you really won't know which is which until the kid is on the way. That's why so many will encourage young lovers to be careful - practice safe sex or just be more picky about whose knock you feel like getting up to (pun intended).
2007-09-23 19:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by uncleclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because in the beginning they don't realize that this is what's going to happen. All they know is that they care about this person and maybe the pregnancy wasn't planned. While the men can just walk, the woman will still be pregnant.
2007-09-23 18:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by sandra c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10 isnt really not on purpose. Women sleep with men for all different reasons. Most the time the women dont find out that the man doesnt want to take care of the kids after its to late but every situation is different.
2007-09-23 18:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by ekbuell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are attempting to create an attachment with the father. Those women can't help being attracted to that type of guy because he exhibits qualities that would have been able to secure many recourses back during the times when the human brain was evolving into what we know today. They can't help being attracted to those guys just like you can't help thinking those women are stupid.
2007-09-23 18:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by jin dun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Or you could ask why men get women pregnant when they don't want to take care of their own child.
2007-09-23 18:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not selective in the initial stages.
All some of the women are looking for, is a bit of fun, not the consequences of trying to work out which guy is the father.
2007-09-23 18:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by jemima 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, my guess is that 90% of the men didn't reveal the true extent of their loserism until they learned the women were pregnant.
2007-09-23 18:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋