Why do they prowl around toilets all the time trying to have a peek?
Tell me why?
2007-09-23 18:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Most gay or bi men do not do this. Yet, I have to admit, why would those who do it, want to do such a thing? This is what I have come up with:
(1) Such locales are their only sexual outlets.
(2) They tried this type of thing once or twice and it became habitual after while.
(3) They have the mistaken belief that others (not interested in sex) are not going to pay any attention to them -- that men have this "code of silence" about what other men do, especially in a private or semi-public place. In other words, they don't think they are going to get caught or their behavior even questioned.
(4) Some gay/bi men (answering your specific question directly) carry their sexuaity only to the point of "voyeurism" (taking a peak at other men) and they see this as harmless, not really hurting anybody else.
2007-09-23 18:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they all don;t. In fact most of the people who prowl around toilets are merely trying to see if th estall is occupied, not look at the equipment of the occupant. But even those few who do try to see somethign are more voyeurs than anything. They may be gay or simply curious but that isn't determined solely by them looking.
2007-09-24 08:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is out of desperation. Homosexuals are not part of mainstream society, so some of the lonely ones seek out human contact in not the best places. It's hard to live in a society that doesn't accept you. Gay people do not grow up with normal social interaction, such as dating someone at school, holding hands, going to the movies, meeting parents, school dances. All of the things that straight people are encouraged to do openly without thinking twice about, are not part of gay kids lives. That kind of social deprivation can eventually make a person desperate. A lot of guys seem to get through it and eventually have stable gay relationships, but not everyone survives their closeted lives or the hatred of anti-gay society with their mental health intact. I do not engage in bathroom antics, but I believe that this is what leads some to this sort of activity.
2007-09-24 01:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by p c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in toilets "all the time" watching them? How do you know your fellow toilet prowlers are gay? Perhaps they are all just like you, sweetie.
2007-09-24 01:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys get off by doing this. Just a fetish usually
2007-09-24 09:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your vanity and imagination running wild Honey. No one's looking at you.
2007-09-24 01:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop playing in there
2007-09-24 01:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by genntri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋