& on top of that, they think it's funny! Do you know love is SO strong that it can make you do crazy things? Make you go out of your way to do things you don't normally do? I mean, I found out my ex was cheating, & I was SO heartbroken. I tried so hard to please him & he lied to me about simple things. He even lied to me about his tastes in music. What's that to lie about? He thought I was stupid & he was playing games left & right, & I couldn't see it. Is love REALLY that blind? @ the same time I found out he was cheating, that's when my roommate I had pulled knives on me & tried to kill me, & he didn't even care to come to my rescue. Was that enough to attempt suicide at the time? Breakup with boyfriend & attempted murder by roommate? I don't know what I did to make him hate me. He hated me so much he was too ashamed to introduce me to his mom. & then here outside people were telling me he had every right to cheat on me & leave me. I feel so useless & worthless right now.
2007-09-23 17:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You'll come across these kinds of people in life that just amaze and shock you with their inability to feel anything other then hate, their ability to only cause strife and grief for you, and the way they blame others and point the finger outside themselves. And they'll leave you feeling broken and only half alive.
Until one day when you're able to identify these people before the first word they utter to you leaves their pathetic little mouths. Because you'll see it in their eyes, and you'll smell it on them like the stench a skunk carries through life. And then you'll know that the pain you felt was not your fault and that very pain brought you to the place you are. Gave you the ability to spot the cheaters and the liars and the sociopaths of the world.
And you'll hold your head up high knowing that you never stooped and you may have felt broken, but you weren't. You were not broken, instead you became stronger and prouder and happier in the end.
And you'll look back on these people, and you'll thank the lord that they showed their true colors to you when they did.
2007-09-23 18:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is called playboy...my dear. he don't even care about you.. just throw him out of your brain! i had read a psycology about guys before since i had an experience and met a playboy like this! hmm.. there's is so many reason why they love you, than they leave you. 1st, maybe they don't find that you are the best for him. so, he cheated to you. he maybe have an egos to show off. 2nd,he have a bad experiences about girls before..maybe he had dumb with someone who he love so much...OR he had a tempered mom...since he was a kid, so he think you are the best for him to take revenge. so, don't feel useless or worthless baby.. just stand up and find another i mean, better person out there... don't give up. experiences is good for future.. next time, u'll learn not to give 100% to guys.. but 50-50. remember,guys cannot be trusted even u had married. gud luck!
2007-09-24 01:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by hana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to hear of your pain , but sociopathic and psychopathic people actually seek out vulnerable people to use and abuse. You are judging the world by your own sweetness and think you can change people if only you give enough and love enough . These people just suck up all that positive energy and destroy simply because they can . You will NEVER change them . Find someone who is as kind and as healthy as you are . Dump the losers ASAP.
2007-09-24 01:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by gillemhor 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You got taken by a bum. Move on and do not dwell on it.
2007-09-24 02:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bitsy Little 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋