i can't seem to relax.. i really enjoy it but for some reason i'm so tense and can't get into it...
what's wrong with me? do you have any ways of feeling relaxed?
2007-09-23 16:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i'm 19 and this is my 5th sexual partner.
i forgot to mention... i HATE my body and never think anything i do is ever good enough. maybe i'm scared to try, get in to it cause what if i fail to please? ...
2007-09-23 16:58:49 · update #1
its bc its still new, youll get more comfortable with him and be able to relax and have more fun once your more comfortable.
2007-09-23 16:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by canoliqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't the "one" for you? Usually we can relax when we are totally and hopelessly in love with someone. We can be ourselves and giggle, play, relax, and even pass gas in front of them. Could be you aren't really comfortable with this one yet. Maybe you need more time before having more sex.
You haven't given many hints about your age, if this is your first sexual encounter, etc. Usually your first time is dificult and you have no idea how to act, what to do or say. That could be one reason you aren't relaxed. You may be having second thoughts, there could be any number of reasons.
What I can say is that you will have to look deep inside yourself and ask why you aren't relaxed around this person anymore? Only you can answer that question, hon. And be honest with yourself~~
2007-09-23 23:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not gud , i dont know how people do this sin, when nobody is ours , not even in ur relation , SO FOR SEX RELATION IS MUST, u ask a person who is using ur body that built a relation with u then sex, he might ignore and if he ignore then u can well guess his attitude towards relation, dear life is not like that u use and thro it away, if u want to enjoy first built relation.
2007-09-24 01:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex without love and marriage is like a hamburger. Takes away the immediate hunger, but doesn't satisfy.
Married sex between a man and woman in love with one another does not require additives -- everything is natural and beautiful -- fulfulling -- like a 7-course meal.
2007-09-23 23:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by TheHumbleOne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, did you ever think that you are telling yourself that maybe you need to know him a bit better? Listen to your own self. Don't just jump into sex right away. Why do women do this?
2007-09-23 23:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if u arent relaxed and dont feel right, then dont do it, maybe u can try givin each other full nude massages to relax u. ive done it , it works great!
2007-09-23 23:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on a good form of birth control, that should help you relax when you have sex.
2007-09-23 23:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by a jaded angel 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
ask him to give you a massage or rub places
2007-09-23 23:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Hobz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was an act of insanity. How could you have given yourself to someone you're not even married to? Has everyone today lost it?
Where are your parents and what did they teach you?
2007-09-23 23:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
simple answer, in your heart you know that this part of your relationship is wrong!
2007-09-23 23:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by gynodoc 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋