please give me some reasons why a guy will turn down a hand job?
2007-09-23 16:39:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe He Rejects This Idea Or Girl Is Ugly.
2007-09-23 17:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is this your bf? Do you do this with every guy you go out with? Is a hand job all they get? Are you really into giving this guy a hand job or is he getting it just because you think it is the thing to do? Give us some more details and we can give you more answers. I can't think of any guy out there that wouldn't turn down a good hand job if it was done with care instead of, OK, let's get this over with attitude. On the other hand there truly are guys out there that don't enjoy a hand job. For them the actual intercourse or oral feeling is the only thing that gets them off.
2007-09-23 19:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by notoutyet72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does want it but is too proud to admit it. Terrible isn't it? He considers it a weakness to admit that he wants it. In my youth I have done similar things. A very beautiful girl named Laurie asked me to her bedroom and I just left her standing there. I was also scared. I pretended to be experienced with women. But the fact is, I ran away when ever it seemed possible I might have to prove it. It actually frightened me more to have my ego blown out of the water than anything else. This is what I was afraid of. If the guy you obviously like is anything like I was. He would like nothing more than what you offered. And may ejaculate within seconds. Coming too soon would show you he is inexperienced. Crazy ain't it? I was raised in a family that never showed physical affection. So it was almost impossible for me to give or receive it. Even today and I am 56, a woman would have to force herself on me before anything sexual could happen. This is what happened when I was 21 and I lost my virginity. But I will always remember Laurie and wish I could have shown some courage. I have actually blown many other opportunities and will continue to do so no doubt. And I so need to have a lover! But I am helpless to do anything about it. Hope I haven't confused you. I confused myself. In the 60s when I was young. No girl would have ever come right out and say "want a handjob" to a guy. Today I guess its not unusual. I don't know if this is good or bad. Good maybe, I don't know.
2007-09-24 06:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested
Wants something else instead
Not sure the Hand knows how to job it right
never had it before
Everytime in the past the Hand has been dry and not slippery
Hands dirty
Girl Skanky
Date is standing right next to him
Too public a place
Came on too bluntly
Shall I continue or would you like to stop thinking its someone elses fault and not your own.
2007-09-23 16:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's embarassed, doesn't like you, would rather your brother did it, he likes his own hand better, he's afraid you might think it's a ketchup botle and start smacking it to get the *** out, afraid you won';t like his dick, prefers it in the shower.
It's an extreamly personal part and all are different and some guys have issues about their little buddy.
He he
2007-09-23 19:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by DeathsToy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. They want something serious.
2. They don't like you.
3. They're taken.
4. They think it's sleazy.
5. *add countless other reasons here*
--Adrian
2007-09-23 17:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My question is this: Which do you REALLY think the guy would really rather have.. a hand job or "bj"? One other question, which had you girls REALLY rather give... hand job or "bj"... and why? ibjimubu@yahoo.com
2007-09-27 05:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by jim m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handjob if you ask me, is for boys and kids to have fun with.Us red blooded man always go for the extreme if you know what i mean. I've tried two vacuums at once and trust me handjob are for sissys!
Cheers
Edwin
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2007-09-23 16:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he were gay, that's no reason to turn one down. Maybe he feels he's not as well "endowed" as the jobber may expect?
2007-09-23 16:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by herfinator 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
these other people do have some logical reasons but dont let that make u think that ALL guys want just sex...when u r in love its different and there r guys who want love not sex
2007-09-23 16:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by kelso 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋