My mom and I were arguing when all of a sudden out of nowhere I got a temptation to push her (very lightly) and I was shocked that I did that. Anyways she overreacted and is telling everyone that I "hit her". I have never hit a girl in my life and like having that clean record. How am I supposed to apologize?
It basically feels like this http://my.break.com/media/view.aspx?ContentID=227427 and all of a sudden people are lookng at me like im a woman beater
2007-09-23 16:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by call the owls 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sairai- my dad moved out on me when i was 6 so please don't make statements like that. Don't think I don't feel bad about it either. I've gone 13 solid years of nothing but love for her
2007-09-23 16:23:04 · update #1
Write her a letter or make her a card that expresses your sorrow and apologies. Flowers won't hurt either. And DON"T DO IT AGAIN!
2007-09-23 16:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetmommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your serious...its not koo to hit your mom or push her in anyway; unless its self-defense. But there's no need for her to exaggerate like that. Especially if it wasn't that serious. Just say I'm sorry and give her some flowers.
If you feel like your going to get physical or want to get physical with any female or anyone..the best thing to do is walk away, remove yourself from the situation. You do not want a record of battery or domestic violence.
That video was funny by the way
2007-09-23 23:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Krys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt like hitting but I never would, I have touched my mom lightly because wanted her to stop talking for a minute but she didn't say anything, I guess I would apologize for touching Her, but both of you know you didn't push her.
2007-09-23 23:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, you are sorry for what you did. Explain to her how you felt during the agrument..and how you felt after you pushed her.
You are not the first person to do something like this when arguments heat up.
She's your mom..buy some flowers..make her some tea, or ocffee...sit her down..and say.."Mom..i am so sorry for over reacting like i did..I feel like a complet jerk..(or whatever you want to use). Can we talk abiut this and how emtional the agrument made me feel?
2007-09-23 23:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by sticky J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go upto ur mom and sincerely apologize to her.. Relationships are all about forgiving each other.. Better make sure never to raise up your hand again.. it feels terrible to have raised hands... Better clear up the feud before it creates a gap in between u and ur mom.. Run up and apologize to her and tell her you din do it on purpose.. Speaking up clears all clogs..
2007-09-23 23:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by giZmO_geEk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your feelings you should be worried about at this time. You need to be talking to your Mother and see how she saw the situation and you NEED to apologize to her and promise it will never happen again. It may be possible what you thought was a "light push" in your anger was more. Talk to your Mother. Only you can fix this, no one else. You shouldn't be asking us, you should be discussing this with her and her only!!!!!
2007-09-23 23:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just apologize to her. Tell her that it will never happen again. And make sure it doesn't happen. When you get angry with her in the future....walk away.
2007-09-23 23:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by WildMtHoney65 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no matter what way you look at it what you did was wrong!!
first of all you have no business arguing at your mom to even get you that upset. apologize and show her how much you love her not how hard you can slug her.
2007-09-23 23:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she shouldn't be going around telling ppl that you guys even argued let alone, tapped her shoulder..but if she was in your face (or your bubble) I believe that you had a right to remove her from that position.
2007-09-23 23:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should approach the situation in a biblical fashion and cut off the arm that you used.
2007-09-23 23:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋