ok i have a prob
my mom signed over her apartment to me in the intention of getting her own place. then she quit her job and decided she wasnt moving and stayed now all the furniture int he house is mine and i am head on the lease. now i have a five month old and i was staying wit my sis because my mom is a control freak and i cant live with her i was gatting a 75 dollar check to pay the gas and lights. she bitched so i give it to her every month. anyway my sis was getting evicted so i needed to move back. so my mom tells me i have to pay her 75 extra dollars out my pocket for rent and she doesnt even pay rent thanks to me. i agree but my first week there she wants me to buy dishliquid and i tell her no. i will buy my own she can buy her own so then she throws all my stuff out tells me to get out of her house and dont come back and my boyfriend is cheating on me with some chick she know. i start school tomorrow and i dont even know where me and my baby are living. what should i do
2007-09-23 16:00:06 · 11 answers · asked by antonique w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well if your name is on the rental they you can have her kicked out i would think.. besides she didnt mind trying to kick you out.. sorry your mother is not very responsable or kind.. good luck
2007-09-23 16:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the lease is now in your name, tell her that she needs to get out if you can't live that way. Or you can give her the option to have the lease put into her name again. Then if you do that and can't live with her, then move out and find somewhere else to go. You can even go to social service or your pastor for help. It sounds like the boyfriend isn't much in the picture? Go to school and get a good education as I can see this senerio a candidate for the Jerry Springer show.
2007-09-23 23:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. So if talking to mom is not going to find a resolution you will need to go to a womens shelter-contact FIA, or call the 411 number for a referral. You need to make sure you and your little one are safe.
Don't let this make you give up. Life can beat you down or make you stronger-you get to choose. You can't change who your parents are, but you can choose to be better!
2007-09-23 23:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are head on the lease so technically your mom would have to leave, your mom is abusing her authority as your mother and you need to put her in her place. Kick your boyfriend to the curb, you need to be happy and take care of your baby and you cant do that with all the negativity in your life......
2007-09-23 23:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by ablockgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN THATS BAD ,OK WELL IF THE APARTMENT IS LEGALLY URS AND U PAY THE RENT GO BACK TO UR HOUSE I MEAN U HAVE A BABY U CANT BE ON THE STREETS , TRY TO TALK IT
OUT IF THAT DOESNT WORK THEN U MAY WANT TO TAKE A MORE LAWFULL APROUCH ...I KNOW THATS UR MOM AND ALL BUT I MEAN WUT R U GOING TO DO ABUT THE BABY BESIDES UR HER BABY MAYBE SHELL BE WILLING TO HEAR U OUT AFTER U SAY
" WE SHOULD HAVE THIS CONVERSATION AT THE LOCAL PD " ...LOL
BUT GOOD LUCK AND LET ME KNOW HOW IT TURNS OUT ?
2007-09-23 23:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by capncok97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police and/or courts would have a definite opinion on
this - It is legally YOUR residence at this point & if need be,
the cops would throw her out!! - You have a baby to consider
and the authorities feel VERY strongly about that !!
2007-09-24 01:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe try to talk to her and remind her thats shes under your roof and lts your house and tell her that you cant get out because you have baby to take care of and you pay her rent for her
2007-09-23 23:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im sorry this is happening to you. you need to stand up for yourself, tell your mom to get the **** out not you. uhm try getting a loan from the bank or something like that. i dont really know what else to do. sorry.
things will get better.
2007-09-23 23:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest womens shelter. They are very kind and understanding and will help you get on your feet
2007-09-23 23:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kalynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its legally your apartment get her thrown out and then end it period.
2007-09-27 21:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋