My husband and I are separated and have been for 2 months now. We have 2 kids together. I left b/c he was mean to me and never accepted our last baby b/c he did not want another. Well, now he is really starting to love her and being so much nicer to me. We miss each other and the past few times we have seen each other we have slept together! It makes me feel fine and we seem to be closer since this. It kind of brings back the spark. We have not moved back in yet and probably wont until we get things straight. Is there any harm in this? I dont want him to think he "has" me where he wants me. Although, he doesnt act like this and acts sweet afterwards!
2007-09-23 15:47:36 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound alot like i did with an ex of mine. Although we didn't work out it was bc he contunied down that path in which ur husband is on. I would suggest that u talk to him. Make sure he is going to change. You should know if he is honest bc u know him better than ne 1. Good luck. I wish u the best
2007-09-23 16:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by PiNk-PrInCeSs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes a time apart makes both people evaluate what is really important in life and make some changes. Good for you to make sure you "get things straight". Before you move back together, just make sure you are really clear about what needs to be different and review it together -- I'd even suggest in writing. Good luck!
2007-09-23 15:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by waldguy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it slow. You may want to get some counseling before moving back in together. You left for a reason and his being sweet may be part of a plan. It sounds like you have your eyes open. good luck.
2007-09-23 15:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No there is no harm. I'm glad you are trying to work things out. You both got married for a reason and sometimes people have fights and have hard times, but I think everything will work out. Good luck to you and Godbless!
2007-09-23 16:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by lutz0926 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Maybe he's really sorry that he acted so immaturely. Get into counseling together to figure it out. If he's willing this may be the beginning of a new life for your family.
A warning, usually men who are mean stay mean. On the odd chance he is the exception, counseling will give you the base to start over.
2007-09-23 15:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnmarie K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about reading the past answer's to your 1st version of this question instead of re-asking hoping you'll get an answer you like.
2007-09-23 16:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! It seems that you are working out your marriage. Take your time and it will be definitely worth it for you and your kids.
2007-09-23 15:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is OK that you sleep together, you are still married. Just don't sleep with anyone else.
2007-09-23 15:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it 's helping to save your marriage,then of course it's ok!!!
Good luck sweeti.
2007-09-23 16:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋