I would say expectations in general are disappointing and they are the root of all suffering, whether they are realistic or not.
The goal...is the destination.
The expectation...is the route.
There are many possible ways to achieve a desired outcome...
So when we become fixated on a particular route...
We shut ourselves out, to all other possibilities.
It doesn’t matter how realistic this route is...
If road construction begins...
And you still insist on traveling this same route...
You will suffer...
Who are you?
What are your needs?
What are goals?
If you are starved...
Keep the company of people with nourishment...
Don't expect anything from those without...
And don't expect your favorite dish from those with...
2007-09-24 10:25:32
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answered by LUCKY3 6
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in the previous I have been given pregnant, I by no ability relatively theory appropriate to the assumption of having infants and what being a parent could be like. after all my husband and that i've got been wild and unfastened we went on bike journeys now and returned for hours at a time. We have been by no ability abode constantly out doing something consume out, making mild journeys the place we'd spend the nighttime at a hotel or something. Then when I did get pregnant actuality sank in and that i found out that we've been the two approximately to grow to be mum and dad even nonetheless it nonetheless did no longer sink interior the shortcoming of sleep, the money elevating a baby took, the extreme emotional and psychological fatigue. whilst our son became born, he became very friendly in spite of the reality that he had colic and that i knew precisely what to do at each turn and point. Now he's two years previous and that i sleep much less now than whilst he became a new child. i'm constantly at stress simply by fact of each and all of the undesirable habit he has these days. he's a very candy boy basically a 2 12 months previous. And now that's much greater frustrating for me simply by fact i take advantage of to recognize what to do, yet now i do no longer. So parenting has easily sunk in now.
2016-10-09 17:42:26
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answered by ? 4
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No, people need to know what is expected of them as well as you knowing what to expect in return and from there compromise can be achieved
2007-09-23 15:02:07
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answered by Anonymous
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everybody has expectations from others and it is natural, i also sometimes do the same, but i know expectations from yourself are more important than from others.
2007-09-23 18:59:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Expectations are important,b. they are a motor of learning
2007-09-24 00:57:57
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answer #5
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answered by Coral C 3
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yes
2007-09-23 14:43:04
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answered by Nick Name 6
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Yes now I know.
2007-09-23 21:12:39
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answered by † Iríšh † 7
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Not so long as they are quantifiable and qualifiable.
2007-09-23 17:35:37
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answered by LORD Z 7
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I WOULD HAVE TO SAY YES ON THIS ONE!!!!
2007-09-23 22:04:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Not always.
2007-09-23 16:13:25
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answered by Anonymous
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