Just looking for some encouragement. I have been told I have trouble ovulating, and on top of that I was diagnosed with a high amount of anti-sperm antibodies that are killing off the sperm. However, last may i did conceive...unfortunately i misscarried. Just wanted to hear some positive stories from anyone out there.
2007-09-23 14:32:31 · 17 answers · asked by anemo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I was told since I had endometriosis I would never have kids. WRONG! Had my son at age 36! I got pregnant the first month after my period off the pill. I miscarried, too (that was in October 2004). In January, after my period, we tried again and I conceived again.
I know this sounds kind of kooky, but you should see a Chiropractor. If you are heavy, try losing weight. If you are slim, trying gaining a little.
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-09-23 14:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who was told she would never have children at all. She was also told if by miracle she did get pregnant she would never carry a baby past the first trimester because she has 83 pieces of metal hardware holding her bones together well needless to say she did get pregnant and found out when she was 5 months along and she had a healthy baby and 3 months after giving birth she was pregnant again and carried that baby to term howere she did break her hip during labour and had to have 7 more pieces of harware put into her body to fix her hip. I'm sorry for your loss but there is hope and it only takes 1 sperm to get pregnant.
2007-09-23 21:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a thyroid problem...hashimoto hypotyhroidism. I had always read that one main of the first things they check if you are having trouble conceiving is your thyroid. Last June I went to the endocronologist for the first time and she kept asking if I was sure I was not pregnant and told me not to even try till we got the medication under control. 11 days later I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant. I had to call and tell her and she was schocked that I was even able to.
I know its not the same situation as you. Did you get another opinion? My sisters both had trouble conceiving. My oldest sister ended up adopting and 2 months later found out she was pregnant. The other had in-vitro and had no problem with the next 2. Good luck!
2007-09-23 21:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years of infertility, 2 of them with fertility treatments....neither of my now x husbands could impregnate me. Finally I was told I was perimenopausal and that I should consider having a biopsy to test the lining of my uterus, if it proved to concur with the blood tests, then have a hysterectomy. This ended my second marriage...he didn't want to adopt. Didn't want someone else's F#ing kids was how he put it. So I left him. Devastated. Started dating again, 7 months later the man I was seeing knocked me up!! Imagine my surprise. Come to find out the boy is highly fertile. One of his girlfriends had told him that she had gone for a vaginal culture and the doctor asked when the last time she had had sex. It had been two weeks since she and he had been together and she hadn't been with anyone else and asked the doctor why he asked. He said because he found sperm swimming around. So I went back to my ob/gyn who had performed the fertility treatments, he said never give up hope. I have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl. Who is the light of my life and whom I call my saving grace. If she hadn't of come when she did I don't know where I would be as my outlook wasn't good at all.
2007-09-23 21:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya...im very sorry to hear about your loss...never fun to go through that...but i do have some encouragement for you...my mum had nine miscarriages but in that i was born..her doctor told her she would have no chance of a healthy pregancy let alone to carry a baby to term...so mum and dad dealt with that and then adopted my brother and well yes i think you can figure out the answer...i was born a healthy and happy baby 23months later...my parents couldnt have any more babys tho but at the end of the day they had my brother and me...I hope this gives you a wee smile and good thoughts...stay positive and it will happin for you....dont ever give up on your dream...good luck....im sending you some positive vibes now.....
2007-09-23 21:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My godmother was told she would NEVER have children. She had a rare condition when she was younger that caused her to have surgery. The doctors told her there was too much scar tissue. She did get pregnant via IVF. She had a healthy beautiful baby boy. She was told that he would be her only one. Well about 3 years later she got pregnant naturally. which was nothing short of a miracle. So Good Luck and don't give up hope!
2007-09-23 21:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Krystle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years of fertility treatments with no luck left my marriage too strained. After my divorce I met a young man and fell in love. 6 months later..Oops! I was pg. That Oops is now 3 and we have another Oops on the way due in April. Both unplanned but both equally cherished and loved. To the Dr's who told me I would have to have a hysterectomy by the time I was 25...I will be celebrating my 30th this year...with a non-alcoholic beverage of course. Don't ever give up....its one thing to come to terms...its another to lose hope and faith that God has a plan for you. Sometimes we just don't know the plan.
2007-09-23 22:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mel H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i always had irregular periods starting as a teen even and the doctor told me that i would never get pregnant then i had to have a cone biopsy done in 1998 and one ovary removed in 1999.....i was told that if i ever did get pregnant i wouldnt be able to carry the baby. i had my first in august of 2000 soon after was diagnosed with endimitriosis....followed by 2 more babies, then a miscarriage (which was caused by genetic defects nothing related to my surgeries) then one more baby in feb of this year. after each one i was told it was a miracle and would probably never happen again......i have 4 healthy kids that say theyre wrong, dont give up hope.
2007-09-23 21:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by CRmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*True Story* My aunt had crazy bad periods and went on birth control, but the birth control really screwed up her ovaries. She had to get surgeries and everything. One of her ovaries was completely shot and basically didn't function, while the other turned out almost okay, but during the surgery the fallopian tube was damaged. They told her she had about a 1% chance of getting pregnant. But she did, and now has a beautiful baby boy. I'm so sorry about your miscarriage, but theres still hope. You got pregnant once, that means theres still a chance for you to do it again!
2007-09-23 21:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Shae O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend had problems with ovulating and had the absence of a period. She only got her period a couple times a year and it would last for 6 weeks! She and her husband tried unsuccessfully for 9 years to get pregnant. Finally they tried fertility drugs and were successful with conceiving their daughter. Now after trying again for several months, they are pregnant with twins. But this time they had to go with invitro. It can happen...good luck!
2007-09-23 21:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Moo Moo Mair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋