my boyfriend and i are 14 and 15 (16 in 2 months), we will have been dating for a year on the 7th of october. my boyfriends family is going on a camping trip the weekend of the 5th, 6th, and 7th. we live 40 minutes away from eachother so i can only see him about once a week. his parents invited me 2 come camping with them so that me and my boyfriend could be together on our 1 year anniversary. we will have different tents and his family and his brothers girlfriend (she is 16) are all going to be there...i dont see y this would be considered inappropriate....is it?
2007-09-23 13:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From my opinion... It is appropriate. Especially if you have seperate tents. As long as you give them no reason to suspect any "funny business" you should be fine. Make sure to respect all of their rules. And most of all .. If you want to talk privately... make sure they can see you, but not hear you. Then they won't be on your case about you 2 being alone. I have undergone some pretty strict parents before so I made sure to respect them and go by their rules. I couldn't even go into her room.. So yes I think it is appropriate.
2007-09-23 13:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his family are going to be there - and you are sure that you have different tents, then I can't see this being a problem. As long as your own family trusts your boyfriend, and his family, then all will be fine.
Young people try to grow up too quickly these days and you sound like a sensible person! Enjoy your teenage years as you will never get them back.
Have fun camping :-)
2007-09-23 20:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all not at all. His family has invited you along on their camping trip. It should be fun. And you will get a chance to see the "real" bf. He won't be shaved and showered when he comes out of the tent in the morning. But you won't be showered and have your hair all combed either. Camping is a lot of fun. Go for it.
2007-09-23 20:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds quite appropriate to me. You get to spend time together, and his family are still present....so it's not like you guys are shacking up in the middle of no where by yourself or anything.....Unless your parents don't know (or don't like) his parents very well, then I would understand the concern.
2007-09-23 20:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your parents don't want you going overnight with a guy. Simple and as complicated as they love you and don't want you to do something everyone will regret.
Even with separate tents, things happen.
2007-09-23 22:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by Coach C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a ton of chaperones and your not going to sharing a tent. It all sounds innocent enough to me.
2007-09-23 20:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Knight-of-God 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes this is fine,i m from very traditional family and they will be OK with that too,so dont worrey enjoy your camping
2007-09-23 20:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds well-chaperoned. I don't see a problem.
2007-09-23 20:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still live in your parents house and if they don't know the other people and they don't fell it is right so be it.
2007-09-23 20:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by J S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not in the same tent alone, then its appropriate
2007-09-23 20:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋