or associate with you anymore, and to outcast you to?
what would be the correct way to react to a situation like this with out getting angry?
2007-09-23 13:12:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just ignore it. So what if they outcast you? Anyone who can be influenced to"outcast" someone from a social group is not the kind of person you want to be around.
2007-09-23 13:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by ranch guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would first confront those who were saying those things and ask them why it was any concern of theirs... it's not like you are a mean or hurtful person, so why the slander? of course they probably will either deny it or try to manipulate the situation to make you insecure and full of self-doubts... don't let that happen, stay strong in your mind and spirit.
next i would ask my friends that were being told not to associate with me what they think about it... if they are true friends they will reassure you that they aren't listening
if they are new friends they may be a little unsure so you will have to reassure them
2007-09-23 19:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront the person who is talking to the others. You do not get angry you talk to them and ask why?
2007-09-23 15:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The less people in my life the better chances I can't hurt them. I'm not a people person anyways so I don't think it would impact me much. Yeah it would piss me off in how they're doing it but hey what CAN you do about it?? Good Luck,
2007-09-23 14:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by chantale 31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would I? Or how DO I? I shine them all on..because if someone believes the jealous lies of others, then they weren't my friend to begin with and I say, good ridance and thanks for exposing them..a true friend, won't listen to what anyone else says..ignore them and be thankful, if they don't talk to you again..they never were your friend in the first place, and just proved that they can't be trusted
2007-09-23 13:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be thrilled!!!! Why are they so obsessed with doing away with me? I must pose some sort of threat to them. Have fun with it and with the friends they are trying to take from you. Make yourself more appealing to them and watch the puppets dance.
2007-09-23 13:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by ladytaurus83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋