2007-09-23 12:36:49 · 60 answers · asked by htpanther 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
LOL to the person that mentioned something about wasting points I don't believe any points have been wasted if so oh well that's not what I'm concerned with ;)
2007-09-23 12:49:36 · update #1
Here's how I look at it.
I've been thrown many curve balls and i've become pretty damn good at hitting them out of the park.
It's all what you make it baby.
2007-09-23 12:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that we all have doses of fairness and unfairness regardless of how our lives are going. It is all how you look at the end results that matters. Everything is not fair in life and the sooner we realize that, the easier it will be to understand that disappointments will come and there is not always something we can do about that. Facing the disappointments and picking ourselves up and moving on to the next faze of our lives is very important. Some people have very, very bad experiences for whatever reason and I am quite sure that it is difficult to get through them when they are angry, hurt, feeling that they have been unfairly treated and that they may even lose faith in God and blame Him because of their trials and tribulations. I think that my faith has sustained me through the hardest of times though I can't say that there wasn't a time when I didn't get angry and turn my back on everything and everyone. I grew past that and came to the realization that whatever comes your way, you have to try your best to handle whatever it is that you are dealing with. Sometimes it seems like someone who doesn't deserve it has all the good fortune and is not experiencing any difficulties in their lives. It is hard to understand why but, that is not our job; it is our job to continue on and be grateful for the good things and work harder to overcome the bad times. It can be done and you become stronger and more able to carry on when you change your attitude and move on in your life. There will always be good times and there will always be trials. How you handle them is what determines your course in life and your happiness, too. My faith and my belief in God and in prayer has helped me tremendously, as well.
2007-09-23 12:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't treat you fair or unfairly. It is according to the choices, you yourself make, and the reaction to whatever happens to you. Most "unfair" situations are for you to learn a lesson from. i.e. If somebody hurts your feeling, understand that they are the one with the problem not you. If devestating things happen to you, look around you and see that there is always someone who is worse off than you are. In other words your reaction to whatever happens to you in life, is what makes your life is. React with forgiveness, understanding and acceptance and love, and you will be able to get through anything. I know I have, and there have been some very unfair things happen to me in my life. When I look back now I realise that if they had NOT happened I would not be where I am now, with whom I am with, and in the Country and I now live. Everything, good and so called "bad" is part of life and you can learn to be strong and happy under all circumstances, if you react the right way for yourself and others..
2007-09-23 12:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must say that life has treated me very unfair in the past. I had a very hard childhood in many aspects of my life and just when I thought that it was getting better - My first husband ended up leaving me for my friend... LOL. I once again ended up as low on the totem pole as you can ever imagine. I worked nights in a laundry service to help make ends meet for my 2 babies from my marriage - Ended up moving up the ladder to a management position in a school district and have finally married a wonderful man - Then my mom died and all of the personal belongings that I kept at her home while I was moving in with my new hubby - vanished with my horrible siblings... So I have had many a BAD circumstance...
2007-09-23 12:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Monica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've made what I thought were good decisions that turned out to be very bad in the end. I was homeless after a 'very bad decision' but I met a man who became my best friend ... and then we fell in love and got married. We've been married for nearly 11 years now and are 'together forever and beyond.' If I hadn't made the decisions I made, we would never have met. Life may seem 'unfair' at times, but it's how you 'end up' that will tell you that life is generally 'fair' although it may take YEARS for you to realize that.
2007-09-23 12:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. But that's life. All of the things that seem unfair are usually there to teach you a lesson in the process. I consider the fair portion there as a reward for all of the unfair times.
-God Bless!
2007-09-23 12:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Krys♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfair
2007-09-23 12:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fair
2007-09-23 12:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Caroline 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fair. Ofcourse we all go through our bad days, but do you know only 65% of our population can go home from a long day to a house they call their own and have a hot meal at night? And sleep in a comfterable bed in a warm house?
I think that's fair enough. And we all just have to deal with the rest.
2007-09-23 12:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by 100% Italianಌ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that life was treating me unfairly. Now I think, "it is what it is," and that we don't always see the big picture, inc. the joy. The things that have happened to me in my life that seemed unfair have always, in time, turned out for the best. I either learned something from it, or I grew bec. of it, or I was being guided toward something better.
2007-09-23 12:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Indi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it has seemed unfair. Once in a while life tries to treat me fair. Come on life i just give you a dare.
2007-09-23 12:45:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋