2007-09-23 12:23:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. You are just human and a sexual being. Being gay is not defined by homosexual acts, many straight men have sex with other men. If you want to call yourself gay, that is up to you but I wouldn't hang a label on myself unless there was a reason to do so. If you enjoyed it, which I am sure you did, then fine. Try it again if you want to, or don't if you don't want to but don't worry about labels.
2007-09-23 12:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by tentofield 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Now that you are free, you have the CHOICE to continue this behavior or never do it again. It really IS up to you! The outside world is far different from the world of incarceration. You can find a nice woman, and put that whole nightmarish experience behind you - OR you can choose to perpetuate the homosexual practices you were forced (?) to partake in while you were behind bars. It's YOUR call now!
2007-09-23 15:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief no!
From what I gather you didn't have much choice in the matter. It sounds like you were sexually abused by this cell mate.
My heart goes out to you!
Get your self some STD testing and perhaps some counselling to help you work through this.
Straight men (heterosexual) do not willingly have sex with other men. But being forced or feeling you have no choice is not willingly. Men who are willing to have sex with other men and enjoy it and are not forced are gay or bi, whether they can admit to themselves or not.
I would say you know in your heart who you are and who you find attractive. Don't let this experience question what you truly know about yourself.
2007-09-23 12:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously...being forced is not the same as preferring something...now which is it?
you're straight, and you don't like what you were forced to do...
or
you're gay, cuz you now want to do more of what you were forced to do?
2007-09-23 13:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by waterlin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were forced then you were raped. It is when you do it of you own free will that you are gay
2007-09-23 13:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you still have a desire to do those things with another dude.
2007-09-23 21:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by stevemeister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not unless you enjoyed it
2007-09-23 20:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll technically if your asking yourself that and others. Yeah you are.
2007-09-23 12:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
not unless you liked it ...
2007-09-23 14:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by I <3 TR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really
2007-09-23 12:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by McLovin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋