seeing a guy,he has a son,his son is his everything,his son does not appreciate him & it bothers me. he realizes his son is spoiled,so how do i deal with his spoiled kid?
2007-09-23 11:56:42 · 3 answers · asked by my5jrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old is the child? You are not the child's mom, but if you and the dad are planning on making your relationship long term, there may not be anything you can do about the child being "spoiled". There is a difference between being "spoiled" and misbehaving. The only way for you to deal with this child is to get a good understanding with the child (depending upon his age). You don't have to spoil the child just because his mom and dad spoil him. Let him understand that there are certain rules to be followed when he is in your presence. No temper tantrums if he can't have his way, etc. If you are not planning on making the relationship with dad long term, get out now, because his son isn't going anywhere.
2007-09-23 12:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by grace95838 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont you have to let your b/f deal with his son . It is not your place that is his son and he and the boys mother are responsible for the way he is raised . If you tell him how you feel you might end the relationship cause he might think you are telling him that he has to choose between you and the boy and he will most definately choose his son . so do yourself a favor and stay out of it . good luck .
2007-09-23 12:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the hell out of the son with the silver spoon that was - prior to this - stuck up his butt.
2007-09-23 12:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋