Ok. So im dating my best friends cousin. She is very upset because she says its not the same with us going out b-cuz we're all each other talks about. She says we've changed. She is constantly telling us lies about each other just so we will get in a fight and break up. im sick and tired of her interfeering with my love life!! i cant even beleive a word she says anymore. i dont want to break up with him cuz...i think im in love. but i dont want to lose a friend either!! please help me
2007-09-23 11:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If shes a true friend then she wouldnt be doing all the things thats shes doing to u. It does suck but i kinda had the same problem, and i had to break up with my best friend because she was so controlling and lied all the time. breaking up with her really hurt but i knew that it was best. If i would have kept being friends with her, she would have brought me down to the lowest of lows. I didn't want anyone making me feel bad about myself. I hope things work out the best for u!
2007-09-23 11:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by 1DisneyNut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl if she was a Real friend she would understand how u feel just talk to her and she will understand and if she doesn't she isn't your friend. Just remember you have other friends not just her and as for your boyfriend if you both really love each other you will face up's and down's forever remember life isn't as peaceful as they say it is you have to take it in.
2007-09-23 18:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what is ur friend is doing its not right and u dont deserve that. Try working it out telling her how u feel and try to tone down talking about ur bf a little but not totally. If she doesnt change shes not a true friend!
Peace, Nikki
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2007-09-23 18:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds jealous and a possibility of her in love with you. I wouldn't break up with him. Just talk to her and ask her what is up with all those lies.
2007-09-23 18:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated my best friends cousin too. i know its hard. but, you know what you want. if you think you are in love with him. worry about him and dont let her bother you. if she is your real friend she will come around and if not...there is other people you can surround yourself with that will make you happy. and not try to break you guys up. good luck.
2007-09-23 18:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by briski_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk to her she will be mad and you will lose a friend
try going out with the boy some more, then shell understand probably
2007-09-23 18:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pancake Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sharing things about
each other with her.
2007-09-23 18:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you really like him. if she really is your best friend she will let you two be together.
2007-09-23 18:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve known her first then youll just have to let him go becuz you can find love anywhere
2007-09-23 18:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by §êx¥måmå 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is best for u that get rid from him
2007-09-23 18:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by kkn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋