About 3 yrs ago I figured out i was bisexual and ever since then and before I have never been in a "real realationship" i mean i am really shy and quite! If anyone has some good advice I would really appreciate it!!
2007-09-23 11:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by sh0rt86 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You sound like me. I realized i was bi about a year ago. So far only about five people know about it. it's not that i'm closeted, i wouldn't mind people knowing. but the thing is, like you, i'm really shy and don't talk to people much, so i don't end up telling people. if you're looking for a relationship i would suggest you get out there more. if you're looking for girls (i'm assuming ur a girl) maybe you should make it more obvious ur into girls, maybe by dressing more boyishly or something. or you can just tell people.
If you already are out, then the problem is probably ur too quiet. being too quiet usually doesnt attract too much attention. if you really want a relationship, then try to talk to people more, or just gaining more self-confidence. even if it doesn't work, at least you can still be proud of yourself for trying. and remember, things take time. it's not that important to be with someone RIGHT NOW. you will find someone,sooner or later. just dont worry too much about it.
2007-09-23 12:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by lazarine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest you look for local women's groups that are focused on something you enjoy - hiking, canoeing, poetry, film, etc. Go to the group meetings & make new friends. You'd be surprised what you find.
2007-09-23 19:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u found any guys & gurls u like?are u 2 shy to ask them out or are u just scared they dont like you?try going to a party to meet new people
2007-09-24 07:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty&Brains 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just aren't ready for a real relationship? or the right person hasn't entered your life? Just be who you are and explore your world and the right person will cross your path.
2007-09-23 18:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
y0ur not ready yet
i think =/
2007-09-23 18:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by C H A R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋