Sometimes i think of things that my boyfriend has said in the past that have made me so jealous. Even though he's said these things so long ago, i still think of them sometimes and they freak me out. Like if he's said that he thinks other girls are pretty or when he went to a bachelor party it made me so jealous. And he knows that im extremely jealous and i hate the fact that he thinks this because i want to seem secure with myself. I even get jealous now if we go out somewhere im like 'i wonder if he thinks shes hott or her' and 'was he just looking at her? does he think shes pretty' i mean, weve been going out for 2 years now and i cant seem to get over things or not be jealous. how do i overcome jealousy and forget things he said before that drive me insane?
2007-09-23 08:38:43 · 2 answers · asked by Caitlin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jealousy is not a very pretty thing. Everyone goes thru it.
I wouldn't necessarily get upset with my hubby for saying a girl is pretty, unless his tongue was hanging out. After all there are lots of pretty girls out there, right?
Just because he said they are pretty doesn't mean he want to be with them. He is with you. He picked you!
Go to a book store or the Internet and look at self help books such as this one.
http://vitalcoaching.com/dating/challenges/jealousy_how_to_deal_with_it.htm
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-23 16:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2007-09-24 14:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋