OK, I have been with my partner for almost 5 years and sex has always been a bit funny, e.g. 3 weeks with nothing and then 3 days none stop and then back to nothing. Now though, the last time was 27 May and I'm starting to crack up. I have mentioned it to him but he just says that I nag about it all the time and then it dosn't exactly put him in the mood!! He is 19 years older than me and just says that his "bits" don't work. Having said that, when he can be bothered, everything works perfectly. Has anyone any ideas what I should do to get things moving again?? I'm too young to be a born again virgin and this is cracking me up.
2007-09-23 08:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by Stressed 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I know he has been under pressure from work lately and had quite a few health problems a few months ago which was why I didn't push things. He is also on daily medication. I love him dearly and would never cheat on him and really want to work it out.
2007-09-24 08:10:14 · update #1
You poor thing im a woman who has been with my fella for 14 years and somethimes things go a bit off and we dont have sex for a bit. But i must say never that long you need to sit down and talk about it because things cant be right if your going that long without sex!
2007-09-23 08:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ella Or Shannon x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
VIAGRA
try some, then things may pop up between you lol
seriously though i think all couples go through this, been there wore the t-shirt etc, but some people wont admit it.
try to relax with each other and just let things happen, a nice bath together, followed by a sensual massage, with no pressure for performing, may get him in the mood.
good luck
cathybaby x
2007-09-23 08:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Qqq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geesh, Hon you need to wake up and smell the coffee or hit him over the head with frying pan, LOL. Apparently something has gone a miss in your relationship and needs some serious help!!!
Either work it out, or move on out!! Either way, this is a straight up wake up call, something is up with your partners health and you best get them to a doctor cuz i don't see them doing it no time soon. I'm seeing a blood circulation problem or blood pressure problems and it don't look to funny from where i'm sitting!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-09-23 15:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by humor4fms 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is notthing called NON STOP SEX.What is happening at times the mood is not created or passion is ignited.You have to make him'Confident" and that is where you require some caution or patience.You can have councelling.I do not suspect ED as you say at times performance is NON STOP.Youn have failed to arouse the passion in man.
2007-09-24 00:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh tell me about it! my bf is the same age as me (19) and we have been seeing each other for 9 months, surely we should be at it like rabbits! but noooo i have this problem too and my libido is so much higher than his!
just don't nag for a day or two and he'll come running because he'll think you've lost interest and will feel in control.
it works for me! ;)
2007-09-24 04:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem with ED, there are several medications on the market that can increase his sex drive. He should get over his embarassment and talk to his doctor, doctors hear about it all the time, for both of your sakes.
2007-09-23 08:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by theseeker4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trying talking to him more. doing sexy things to turn him on. watch porn together. do something to get him going. if none of that works and his "bits" just dont work anymore... and sex is something you cant live without then move out and move on. good luck...
2007-09-24 02:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to sit down and discuss this together, you do not say how old you are, Healthy men in old age can enjoy sex perhaps he should see a doctor
2007-09-23 22:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is on some meds that cause sex drive problems.
Or maybe its time to move on.
2007-09-23 08:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lil lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find someone closer to your age and libido levels.
2007-09-23 08:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋