Part two of my question when it comes to women and relationships who do women change their minds so much? I mean for instance a man can have his indifferences with his girlfriend, wife or whatever - settle it and everything is suppose to be fine; However, a lot women will bring the same drama up anyway - what's up with that?
2007-09-23 08:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
'a man can have his indifferences'
That's it in a nutshell!!
Nothing's up with it.
LOL@dr311
2007-09-23 08:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are the MAN rules somebody finally wrote them down for you all to see. This is what you're truly dealing with, all other beliefs are just DENIAL.........
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In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.
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Don't ask us.
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Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
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Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
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We do that.
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We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
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2007-09-27 14:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means it hasn't really been resolved. Sometimes women rather things just be better'quickly'. Meaning we don't want take the time to get to the bottom of the issue. Go back and get to the bottom and resove it so u can move forwrad.
Also many woman have a hard time trusting you wont do it again-or it wont happen again-so we keep bringing it up cause we're afraid of it happening again.
2007-09-23 15:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by marigold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No everything is not always settled. Let's say the wife cooks and does dishes. Husband, in turn, takes out trash. Every night food is on the table, every night dishes and cleaned and away. Where do you think that trash still is??
That's the problem. Why do we have to tell you over and over and over? Nope... it's not settled.
2007-09-23 15:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about indecisiveness or passive aggressiveness? Both men and women can be both, it's just that they express it in different ways and people interpret behavior in different ways depending on a person's gender.
For example, a guy can act like a b*tch but people will call him assertive, a leader, etc. A woman can act the same way and guess what people will call her? A b*tch.
2007-09-23 15:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by A.H. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the emotional nature of the way we view relationships, it seems to be harder for women to let things go permanently when supposedly a situation is settled. It takes longer to let it go.. My wise hubby of 30 years told my sons that when situations arise with their mates they should always expect it to take awhile for it to settle down or be resolved. Even if they (the males) think it is. Just don't be surprised and be prepared for it to come up again he tells them. She needs to work it through at her pace not yours he tells them... I love that man!!!!!!
2007-09-23 15:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both women and men regurgitate past issues. Men think about this, but dont want to say anything to prevent argument. Apparently whatever you think youre are done talking about is not fully resolved...
2007-09-23 15:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Kai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, women keep bringing up those "wrongs" because we are so verrrrry frustrated that we can't fling you back into time and have you just give the 'right' answer at the 'right' time in the first place.
silly boy. insert smile.
2007-09-23 15:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by dr311 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
something makes them remember it and they remember another question they have about it, and they just have to as u again to make sure that u still feel the same way about the situation, and if u dont then they'll get scared. we're really moody and sometimes very emotional.
2007-09-23 15:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chiquita Bonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not always true! My boyfriend is WAY more indecisive and changes his mind more than I do.
2007-09-23 15:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by jess_ls04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋